"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Field Report: New Years!

LegendBoy

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Alright got together with like 5 mates for new years drank a little then hit the beach and the club.

One mate is underage to get into clubs so we went around trying to pick up.. I am no pro.. But I had a go tonight..

Aproach 1:

She was leaving toilet at beach and I called her over and talked very briefly I asked her age she was 4 years younger then me so off limits and she seemed interested and smiled and left after I told her she was too young for me.

Approach 2:

Right after approach 1.. Two girls came out of toilet I opened them one blonde and one brunette... I was little tipsy so I just was fluff talking and then my mate came out of toilet then it was 1 for each of us. Then I came out with the dumbest comment after they told me they were 17 I was like I am 24. They politely then excused themselves..

Approach 3:
This time we coming out of Macca's toilets, different toilet to above... We see two girls one is ugly one is good. We were talking to them for a good while and there like we got boyfriends you know... I am like mad.. So that didn't workout to well.. But one boyfriend was my height and fat and the other was short and boney... Later same girl saw me and she's like are you trying to run into me on purpose.. I just laughed..

Approach 4:

We are outside Macca's a group of girls are at a table I wave at one of them and call her over and she starts talking I am with my same mate from the previous 3 approaches.. Then a third mate comes and I hate spitting game infront of him so I poitely eject.. I had this one for a # close for sure or a "walk" but I was dumb and ****ed it up.

Aproach 5:

This is on the dance floor later on at the club. I see some girls taking photos and get in a few photos... Then grab girl by the waist after the photos and tell her 2 come and dance.. She seems like she is kind of resisting and I just try a little more and then just say **** it..

Approach 6:

Two random girls around beach with another mate now we just chat with them walk around for about an hour and they are flirty but not putting out.. Then my mate gets a call we gotta meet up with another friend.. So we have to part so i just grab the *****es asses and tits.. They seemed to get "angry" but we were leaving and we weren't seeing them again..


Out of these 1,2,4 were money and with better ability # for sure..

Feedback please this first time I have done this much approaching in one night... New to me..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LegendBoy

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Anyone going to give me responses? Also did you's realise the trend in all the pickups I didn't # close..

I found it VERY hard to try to get a hook up or a number as in when I was talking to them I would be a good metre away.. so I would have to make the ground up without just walking like a creepy guy as it is a cold approach..

want some feedback though?
 

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You wanted a response. Ok, your approaches sucked. You got no numbers. But, at least you had the guts to try. Some chick might be horny next time. Good luck.
 

Jay Jay

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Feedback.

1. Don't loiter about ladies toilets and approach girls coming out of them... bad idea. If you wanna use natures call to get isolated chicks don't grab them when they just come out... either say hello on their way in and tell em to meet ya later or let em get a way from the ladies... yeah every guy is like wtf? It matters to chicks...

2. Don't grab chicks arses and tits until you know they want you to (try kino, hugs, kisses first). Your attitude there is totally ****ed up, just think how you'd feel if that was your mum, sister, girlfriend.

3. Don't mack with dudes you don't want to mack in front of. In fact only go out macking with wings.

4. Don't be too aggressive dragging girls onto the dance floor. Be playful.

5. Don't get too pissed.

6. Don't say **** it to early.

7. When a chick with a beta boyfriend accuses you of chasing her you gotta bust her balls!

8. Attend to your attitude to women. It doesn't sound like you are giving out good vibes. Feed on the thrill you get from the approach. Enjoy the chase.

9. Good work! 6 approaches in one night. Keep practicing and you'll be the man!

JJ

Oh yeah, stay awat from Maccas and chicks that eat there. Yuk!
 
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