Field Report: Getting back with that old school flow.

[old_skoolr]

It's been a busy last 9 months from me. I've been working 6 days a week, trying to save for a trip overseas as well as paying for my Visa to work in the UK for 2 years. Although working 40-50 hours a week has its disadvantages. My dating game has fallen and it has gone to the point where I've literally forgotten to message plates.

I might go a month to 2 months without messaging them. Clubbing is even worse, as since I'm not messaging or flirting with girls, I seem to lose my confidence and mojo when I'm at a bar or clubs. I've always been the guy to make stuff up on the spot and never follow or remember routines.

Though this week was different, I felt my confidence come back. And I hit a bar to see how rusty my game was. Chatted up three girls that night.

Girl 1: Talked to her at the bar, she had a great smile and I asked her how her night was, she replied good and asked about my night. I told it was great now that I've met her, and that I just wanted to meet her coz she had such an amazing smile. She blushed and thanked me and I noticed a diamond ring on her finger. She told me she was getting married in October. We talked for 10 minutes till I said I'd let her enjoy the rest of a night, she then gave a kiss on a cheek and told me how cute she thought I was.

STRIKE 1

Girl 2: She was sitting by herself as her friend was hooking up in the corner. I went over to her and started talking. I told her come to the bar so we can get some drinks as it beats sitting in the corner by yourself doing nothing. She asked for some water and went at sat down talking. She let me know that she had a bf in the UK for a year and its long-distance and she shouldn't know if she should be talking to me. I assured her that she was fine and I understood having to be the 3rd wheel and thought i'd be nice since she was being such a good friend. This girl was a 8 with double-D's poking out of her top....damn!!! We talked for 10-15 min, we had a fair bit of a convo, finally her friend came back and they left. Should've maybe asked for her fb. Since LDR rarely ever work, but I thought it'd betray what I told her before about not trying to hit on her, so I kissed her on the cheek and wished them a great night.

STRIKE 2

Girl 3: This Irish girl sitting in the smoke room, I ask her for a smoke and she told me she'd ran out. I asked her how her night was and why is she by herself? We started talking and I got the flirting going. She was loving it as we started kino and even got close enough to kiss her at least twice. Once she found out my age, she went immediately cold as it turns out she was older then me by a few years. After she went cold I cut my losses and told her have a good night.

STRIKE 3


3 strikes and I'm out, not the best return to the game that I've had. But one I can take positives out of. I was confident, ****y, borderline arrogant, but also mixed in with abit of charm. Girl number 3 especially, liked the fact that she'd sh!t test me, and I'd other comeback with another smartass or a charming line. Girl number 1 was charmed no doubt, too bad she had a ring on it. An girl number 2 was the main prize, that I had to work to get some convo going but once it got going, was easily maintained. Maybe could've asked for her fb yet didnt want to be an orbiter for her.

Thanks for reading guys, let me know what you think!!!

 

[blind_one]

You've got this bro. You went out and acted, its only a matter of time now.
By doing that you are better then 3/4 guys. You have purpose and you act on it.

Good job and GL

 

[old_skoolr]

NEW NIGHT

Went out last night and met 2 new girls.

GIRL 1

Was walking to the club with a mate, when we were stopped for directions by these 2 British girls, being the gentlemen we are we escorted the girls to the the bar they were trying o find, separating them so we can get them one on one. I knew I had to be quick to build rapport with this girl, since their bar was only a kilometre away. I joked around her, teasing her about her accent, giving her hi 5s when we realized we went for the same football team.

She told me about shes staying in Melbourne till November, but hasn't really seen anything yet. I told her I could be her chaperon and give her a tour of the city and then asked for my number, she hesitated abit but gave it. I messaged her the next day, to yet no reply.

After analyzing myself, I probably made a mistake in asking for the number, maybe could've gone for something abit safer like a fb, even though I despise asking for FB, it might've been abit better. Though maybe thats apart of my game I have to change.

PASS....BARELY


GIRL 2

At the club met two girls in the smoke room. One of them I clicked with straight away, we ball busted each other and she seemed to get a kick that I was out-witting her every time and not afraid to insult her if need be.

She took me inside to find her friend, she grabbed my hand and led me through the crowd as she walked I made her do a lil spin and she ended up in my arms, smiled and we started making out.

I was pretty drunk at the time, so the fact I pulled this off perfectly was boss haha. We ended up hooking up abit, but the s.hit thing was she got my number and wouldn't give me hers. She left with her friend when the night ended and told me she'd message me, I highly doubt it. Disappointing since she seemed the type I'd like to hang with....ah well.

I'll let you guys grade me on that girl.

 

[thunder_god]

That's so boss dude. Its really inspiring me to go out do some cold approaches now. I have a few dates lined up this week so we'll see how that goes.