"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Field Report: 3rd Wheel Friend Tries to ****block - And Why I Nexted the Girl

Dante420

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She made plans for me and was trying to get with me, when I make plans I usually stick to them. I denied another girl who tried to make plans with me the same day

So, I pick her and her friend up. I met them both once in the past and chilled at her house, I knew her friend is a b1tch who loves to try to **** block - hell she did it to me the first day I chilled with them while I was getting with another girl.


Low risk/low rewards

I didn't care either way if this girl tagged along, I figured she'd contribute to conversation as they planned to take me bowling (not my thing but it's something different and I can find that respectable).

Turned out these girls were broke when she was suppose to be taking me out. She had about $6 (obviously no sense of today's economics). So we get there and she can't pay and I could have paid but wasn't interested in spending my money on bowling. So I tell them they'll have to think of something to do because I'm not familiar with the area.

We end up spending about an hour and half sitting in my car. While this girl in the back seat was trying to be a b1tch to me because she can't think of anything. I'm sitting in this parking lot, not in a sober mindset (shhh!). However I think very clearly through anything, and my decisions made while I'm not sober are valid in sober mind upon reflection.

How I treated the situation:

Just played with her in a condescending way, ignored her while I talked to her friend. I asked her friend (the girl interested in me) "She always like this?" knowing the type of answers I'd get (remember, she's interested in me)

What I should have done was not engaged her at all, even playfully because it leads mental defective females like this the opportunity to do what they like more than anything, hear themselves talk.

At one point I said to her what I should have done, when she said "Ain't nobody a bigger b1tch than me" I said "alright, calm down nobody's gonna try to out b1tch you, you can have that title"

Anyway, nexting this girl because she wasted my time and shows no potential. Didn't text her back after this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think it's good you didn't pay for them.

One time I had this girl tag along with me for the movies, she went like LOL I don't have any money!

I go you don't?

She went, can't you pay for me?

I just went to watch the movie by myself, left her standing there. LOL that was cold even I felt bad after the movie. It was Inglorious Basterds so I still enjoyed myself.

She was HB6.5, I could have smashed but I wasn't really interested in spending anything on her unless she looked like Alicia Keyes, which she didn't.
 

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This is how you get things done gentlemen.
 

Dante420

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Tyson420 said:
I think it's good you didn't pay for them.

One time I had this girl tag along with me for the movies, she went like LOL I don't have any money!

I go you don't?

She went, can't you pay for me?

I just went to watch the movie by myself, left her standing there. LOL that was cold even I felt bad after the movie. It was Inglorious Basterds so I still enjoyed myself.

She was HB6.5, I could have smashed but I wasn't really interested in spending anything on her unless she looked like Alicia Keyes, which she didn't.

I just believe out the principle of the situation a girl should be making the same investment into our time together as I am and if they really want to impress they know to be paying for me (which normally doesn't happen).

You should be thinking that if you were to pay for every girl you take out you'd have a lot less recreational money for yourself - 420
 

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Tyson420 said:
I think it's good you didn't pay for them.

One time I had this girl tag along with me for the movies, she went like LOL I don't have any money!

I go you don't?

She went, can't you pay for me?

I just went to watch the movie by myself, left her standing there. LOL that was cold even I felt bad after the movie. It was Inglorious Basterds so I still enjoyed myself.

She was HB6.5, I could have smashed but I wasn't really interested in spending anything on her unless she looked like Alicia Keyes, which she didn't.
Haha, that's awesome, nice job man. Way to teach that b!tch a lesson. Except...

Alicia Keyes? Wtf man?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you saying you wouldn't do it if she looked like Alicia Keys?

Damn, that's just me then.

Alicia Keys is a perfect 10.
 
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