"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jdon23

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Hello all! Im starting this journal because I want to contribute to this site and improve my game. I will update it as I feel necessary.
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Last night I went to a party in my town. My buddy invited me, so I went over to his crib and waited for him to get ready before we left. Anyway, his SISTER (lets call her HBS) had a huge hold on me about 2 years ago when I was an EXTREME afc. I would do just about anything she told me because I felt that was the "gentleman" thing to do. I got turned into the "best-friend" and then I left for college. I had an epiphany one day and told her off about how she played me-- which led to her not talking to me AT ALL. I would see her every now and again, but I always acted cold towards her.

I am a different person now. I've been to college for a year, learned a lot about myself/the world and I no longer need a woman to feel complete in my life. She noticed this change and immediately started hitting on me by complimenting my outfit and being extremely flirtatious. She asked where I was going and asked if she could come. I told her why not, and drove both my buddy and his sister to this party.

During this interaction.. this guy calls HBS on her phone and she seems reluctant to pick up. I answer the phone.

Me: Hey man whats up
Kid: Yo can I talk to Jessica?
Me: No you can't. Whos this?
Kid: What?? Dude give her the phone.
Me: Dont tell me what to do. I dont even know who you are
Kid: Look on the phone to see who i am
<I look at the phone.. his name is John>
Me: It says "*******" on here. Im pretty positive she doesn't like you man.
Kid: Your such an idiot! Give her the phone please!!

At this point, HBS is going crazy and i'm laughing by how AFC this guy is and hand her the phone. She tells him what he wants and hangs up.

She starts punching me and saying "WHYD U DO THAT??" and starts laughing.
Oh man. I can't believe I used to be like that guy on the phone..

At around 10:00 we got to the party, noticed an HB9, and an HB8 immediately once we entered the house. I had a good command over the room, and noticed intimidation in many of the other guys. I started convo with the HB8 after I settled down and scoped out the room.

Me: Hey! I saw you when I walked in and wanted to meet you.
Her: (blushes) Hi. Im erica.
Me: Nice to meet you Erica. Who did you come here with?
Her: Oh my friend... (i forgot)
Me: Hmm. Well who do you want to leave here with?

She had this shocked and almost-embarassed look on her face

Her: uhh.. umm
Me: Haha. Well here's the deal. Let's play a game of Beer Pong. Every shot you make, you can kiss me ONCE. Maybe I'll let you grab my ass if you are on fire.

I have a serious face the whole time, and then stuck my ass out and say, "comn, go ahead. touch it."

She starts laughing and spanks my ass. AS soon as this happens, HBS comes over and takes my arm. She puts her face in my chest and tells me she wants to talk to me. I tell HB9 to sign us up on the table and I would be right back.

HBS starts asking me who this other girl is and that she's not that pretty.. yada yada.. etc.
I told her straight out. "Stop acting so jealous. First off, we're not together. And second of all, being jealous is EXTREMELY unattractive." After this, I walked away and started talking to other people.

Basically for the next 3 hours, I catch HBS staring at me with my perifs, but I'm having fun playing with HB8 so I don't give her any attention.

HBS starts drinking A LOT and ends up throwing up and calls me up on the phone.. she tells me to come outside, and I do.

The next 30 mins, im outside giving her water and letting her know she'll be okay. Then I realize.. she is just doing this for attention and im being her little ***** again. I don't want to abandon her though because nothing is worse than throwing up in some house u don't know. so idk I ended up just being a good friend to her. I had to physically pick her up, and put her in my car so she could fall asleep.

I go back to the party and HB8 comes running up to me and kisses me and asks me where I went and ****. I told her what happened and she showed some concern but I told her she was alright. I took her hand and brought her into the bathroom where we started making out. I took her hand and put it on my d!ck and she started rubbing me. She said I was making her very horny so I fingered her for a while and then eventually she just took my d!ck out and she blew me.

After this, I went back to the party, socialized with a few other people and played a few games of beer pong with my buddy. I ended up going outside because this guy had a potato gun and was shooting trees and was doing damage.

HB8 came up to me at around 2am and told me she had to leave, and wanted to know if I wanted to come.

I knew I had to drive HBS and my buddy home so I told her that i'd take a rain-check since I couldn't tonight. She told me to promise that I would call her, and I said I would- when im not busy. I left shortly after 2:30.



Now this is where my night got very random.

I had to stop for gas because I was almost empty. So I pull into this gas station in town and start pumping gas. While i'm doing this, I notice another car comes into the station- and it sounds as if there are a few drunk females present. I take a look and there is a HB9 and her not so attractive friend (who i recognized from my hs)

I finish pumping my gas and sincerly ask the women if they "are ok to drive home". They say YES, but they need my help because they can't get the credit card thing to work.

This dumb broad put her credit card INSIDE the receipt paper slot. It was so far jammed up there, I thought it would never come out. I went inside the place and told the guy what happened and told him to give me a key to open the receipt paper door. (luckily I worked at a station like this before so I knew what I was doing)

I got her credit card out and she immediately said THANKYOU!! She hugged me and THEN STARTED KISSING ME!! I was suprised. I did VERY little flirting and kino, and this girl was forcing herself on me. This has proven to me how easy night game is.. especially went chicks are drunk.

I talked to them for a while and she gave me her name and # and I said I would have to call her and hangout sometime. She agreed and said she was so happy that she met me tonight.

I drove my buddy and his sister home.. and stayed the night since I was sooo tired. The next day I woke up and HBS was just throwing herself on me. I told her that she needs to stop being so jealous and that there is enough of me to go around. We make out for a while, and she tells me she wants to make me breakfast.

I eat breakfast and then leave because I had mad studying to do. She texted me ALL day today asking when we were going to hang out again..

So all in all it was a very productive night.. which was good because I haven't gone out in a while. I learned that I'm no longer attached to HBS and really HOW easy it is to pick up chicks at night..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aragon034

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Drunk chicks are like shooting the broad side of a barn with a gattling gun.

Guy: Hey, you wanna go home with me?
Drunk chick: Mmmhmm....
Guy: (picks her up off the bathroom floor where she's hugging the toilet and throws her over his shoulder)

Night game to me is more getting laid, meeting new people, and just having fun.

Glad you had a good night, and yes, drunk chicks will LOVE you for doing them teh smallest thing.
 

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good report. Nice to see someone having success in the field for a change. I think you still need to work on your inner game a bit though, i get a sense of insecurity when I read the report. Anyways looking forward to future installments and insights. Pce
 

jdon23

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Aragon034 said:
Drunk chicks are like shooting the broad side of a barn with a gattling gun.

Guy: Hey, you wanna go home with me?
Drunk chick: Mmmhmm....
Guy: (picks her up off the bathroom floor where she's hugging the toilet and throws her over his shoulder)

Night game to me is more getting laid, meeting new people, and just having fun.

Glad you had a good night, and yes, drunk chicks will LOVE you for doing them teh smallest thing.
Day game is great to get over your approach anxiety and just work on conversation skills, but night game is a lot easier and way more fun.

I believe night game is so much easier because of the state of most women.
The reason they go out at night is to find an attractive guy AND to have fun. Bring them both and you're in.

Going to class in about an hour, going to try and pick up this cute HB8 blonde in my english class. She always sits next to me and I've had random small talk with her, and made her laugh but I haven't got her # yet.
 
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