"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Few questions....

GLMoose

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1.) I avoid confrontation, UNLESS needed, when it comes to the broads, and didn't really find this worth mentioning to her, but do I trust that things are leading anywhere, despite some questionable things on FB?

2.) I've been sweet talking this broad pretty heavily, however it might come off as being to easy, or worse I might actually be stuck keeping it up for far too long, if things do wind up working out, is there a way to slow all of this **** down that isn't going to push her away.

Also recently gotten pretty much sober, so I'm still adjusting to this life style, and getting to know myself and what not..

advice? tips?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MidnightCity said:
you care way too much how you're perceived.

you sound like one of those mousy/rabbit jiterry type guys to me.

you ever listen to a song that makes you feel badass? like you can take on anything? thats how your mental state should be most of the time.

focus on your body language. maybe you smile too much? maybe you are always closed off? always got your hands in your pockets? crossed?

do the opposite of what you do now. take up more room. talk less. someone looks at you wrong? "what are you lookin at?" you get into a fight? fuk it. a good fight gets the blood flowin. and theres nothing like a woman after a fight.

people are gonna try and stop you from making this change, you will lose friends trust me, but fuk it. maybe at work you earn respect but everywhere else you take it.

cut all the girly facebook tag out with this girl. lift weights instead. she hits you up you ask her to meet you somewhere for a drink. she says no, next. simple as that.

When you get into a fight and win, its better than sex and drugs. Well for me, it makes me feel like god.
 
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