hi i'm 19 yrs old i don't have any female friends and see this as a problem. I have no problem interacting with male friends but when it comes to females I'm rather clueless, I sorta stumble in my conversations and it's rather awkward. How can I be friendly with more women? thanx!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Thread starter noneother
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That's a very broad question. Here are some suggestions to help you confidence: go to the mall and speak to store assistants, ask their opinions etc (you can actually get into good conversations). Join a club where there are a lot of chicks. Speak to any chick you can, e.g. your friends GFs, a chick in class/at work. Just practice. Importantly, realise they are just human beings, they are not frightening and there is nothing to lose.
Take it step by step, first off build your confidence talking to chicks, then being comfortable just being around them (not feeling any need to perform/be accepted/wonder what they think of you), in the end after time you will have some chicks who are "friends".
You can have a conversation with a chick just as easy as with a guy - maybe easier, as once you get them talking they usually carry it.
Take it step by step, first off build your confidence talking to chicks, then being comfortable just being around them (not feeling any need to perform/be accepted/wonder what they think of you), in the end after time you will have some chicks who are "friends".
You can have a conversation with a chick just as easy as with a guy - maybe easier, as once you get them talking they usually carry it.
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Master Don Juan
Female friends are overrated....They are nice but hardly needed. My only female friends these days are my mates girlfriends and generally other unatainable females in our "friends group". Talk to women more. Just treat em like a bloke...just dont get to "blokey" on them. Treat em like a person not a piece of meat or a god as they are neither. If you need general help talking to women. Go into shops in town and ask about products and stuff. I run a phone shop and if people come in and talk you can generally get convo going. Dont stay long. Just some breif convo. Do it a few times and your confidence will grow.
noneother said:
simple tip on how to make more female friends. USE THEM. at school, at work, whatever. use them for your benefit. i know its wrong, but it works. that will put you in mental control. you'll know that youre talking to them for other reasons then getting in their pants, thus it will make you less nervous.