Female collegue being very disrespectfull

[TheGambino]

Today at work we had a briefing before christmas sales.

At coffee time I went to grabb coffee for my collegues during the morning briefing. A collegue that sells less then me and hates me for whatever reason (shes like 50 years old and works at the store for 14 years) told me bring me 2 sweets. I thought she meant sugars but she meant those little sweet pills. I didn't know that. I came back with the coffee and 2 sugars for her and she said 'wow your such a d1ck' (meaning it without joking) and went to grabb it herself infront of the store manager and another collegue. I acted like I didn't hear her and my collegues looked akwardly a bit shocked. Some1 quickly talked about something and we forgot about it.

Normally I don't take sh1t but this is work and I didn't want to f8ck up the mood that morning, we had a big salesday on head of us.

Would u guys go to your store manager to discuss this and tell him you have limits and would react differently the next time this happens because she is becomes more disrespectful everyday towards me.

 

[Blusher]

 

[ChrisFloyd]

What are those little sweet pills anyway?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Whenever someone calls me a d!ck, @ss, @sshole, pr!ck, douche, douchebag, or anything of that sort, I always smile and say 'thank you' in an overly sweet way where it sounds really sarcastic and just laugh it off. It keeps our mood light while the other person's goes down. No need to make a big deal out of it unless she really TRIES to p!as you off. And even then, you take everything with a grain of salt and just laugh at THEM for saying that. I find that those people who actively try to get you mad will get so infuriated when you get happy at what they say. Besides, others will just look down on her and hate her more.

This isn't a big deal you know.

 

[SeymourCake]

At work, never gossip about anything or anyone. Your mind should be 100% goal oriented concerning your job.

You apparently passed her sh!t test. Don't worry about it. She's jealous of your sales and she wants to bring you down by lowering your self-esteem. Successful salesmen have high self-esteem so shrug it off and keep doing what you do.

 

[foreverAFC]

if i were you i would have said "excuse me?" very loud. dont let people talk to you like that and just pretend its ok or pretend you didnt hear them. if she has a problem, then ask her what it is and confront her about it right there. i had foreman who used to talk to me like i was a piece of garbage, and to this day i regret not confronting him immediately, its not worth all the time i spent afterwards being angry at myself for letting something disrespect me like that.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I would've just said, "heh, whatever loser" and chomped on whatever I was about to eat/drink...but THIS is why I cannot Work in a job that places me in the midst of "co-workers" for very long. I've tried that route before and "office politics," especially with the American society, the American people of today, would get me fired instantly. I can only see/converse with "co-workers" briefly throughout my day (usually in the morning and evening and spurts throughout the day). I could NEVER work in an office, anymore, not with America today. If I'm briefly around American co-workers or briefly around American customers, then I can "get by" with fluff talk and never really have the opportunity to get into a tussle with any one of them. It's all "surface," everywhere I go, NEVER get close-nit with Any of em. I guess I'm that way with women too, and why I can never get into a long-term relationship. I'm a roamer, a roaming beast, that walks the Earth. It's the Lightest Load you could carry in life, and it's Easy. I live the very Easy life, though I work Very hard when I do. Away from work, I am Very relaxed.

This all allows me to develop my OWN mind, to not be "worried" by Peer-review. I do not have to be Politically Correct, hardly EVER. This freedom is entrancing and quite nice. I can develop my Own thoughts about everythang, and most of my Thoughts are sooooooo unthought-of or extraordinary, ranging from social issues to economics to the asinine government funding of universities while we have this wealth-of-information called the "internet" staring right at us? 333 BILLION tax dollars go to support liberal professors pfft, to what Jesus actually said/didn't say.

I SHOCK my co-workers from time to time about Christmas, about Jesus vs. Christianity (as it is today). They are probably offended by what I said, and I'll say MORE, but that is because what I say, I have thought about, and I believe is true, that some of what is written (even down to the last line of the Lord's Prayer) wasn't what Jesus actually said back then. It just doesn't "jive" with everything else He said. Also, Paul's "It would be better for you to marry than to burn" writings...these writings of Sex = Evil...Jesus never said ANY of that. There are sooooooo many things, written (and said) things that people blindly follow that simply Do. Not. Make. Sense. And THAT is why I have no qualms about taking WHATEVER ANY AMERICAN says to me as if he/she just said absolutely NOTHING whatsoever, because MOST (I'm talkin 99% of Americans can't even THINK for themselves or THINK on their Feet. They are all Fvcking like those Dolls that you pull a cord and it just goes on and on regurgitating what they heard/read somewhere until the cord returns to his/her back. They are pretty much, ALL, not worth my time. You cannot debate with them cause almost none of them have a brain to begin the conversation with. None of them care about Truth.

 

[Boxer00]

Who cares about some 50 year old lady.