Feeling like giving up with women

[sangheilios]

Good. Now let’s take it a little further.
Let’s say that society created this playground. In the playground are all the women and 90% of the men. These men have been programmed from birth to live in that playground. ESPECIALLY if they were raised by their mothers.

These men believe what they see because of that programming. But it’s all an illusion. In that playground the women make all the rules and society backs it up. Sometimes with force. All of your thoughts are based solely on this fake reality.
How would you know what to think or how to form a social thought if your entire foundation by which you think is feminine?

You don’t have a starting point by which to form a thought that isn’t influenced by that feminine foundation. It’s completely made up and not real.

In that playground women have the game of extorting resources from all the 90% of men who are in the playground. Walk on them. Kick them. Laugh at them. Use them. (Keep in mind they are not being evil)

Now up walks a man to the edge of that playground. He isn’t in the playground. He’s just looking around tether leisurely. Interested maybe.
Those women see him and they know he’s no fool like the others. He’s someone to breed with for the best offspring. From HER viewpoint. Not yours.
So she wants to breed with him. There’s no doubt. No hesitation. He’s a man that owns HIS own playground.

Why does he want that man at the edge of the feminine reality?

I would wager it is because she would see that man on the edge as different from the rest and because of this that intrigues her. I'm aware of the fact that most men are followers in society and just go along with the status quo. They aren't all that unique or different, they don't follow their own path out of fear or being guilted by others and because of this are behaving submissively.

I personally have always done my own thing but I was a late bloomer to the dating game and women so this is still pretty new to me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Good. Now let’s take it a little further.
Let’s say that society created this playground. In the playground are all the women and 90% of the men. These men have been programmed from birth to live in that playground. ESPECIALLY if they were raised by their mothers.

These men believe what they see because of that programming. But it’s all an illusion. In that playground the women make all the rules and society backs it up. Sometimes with force. All of your thoughts are based solely on this fake reality.
How would you know what to think or how to form a social thought if your entire foundation by which you think is feminine?

You don’t have a starting point by which to form a thought that isn’t influenced by that feminine foundation. It’s completely made up and not real.

In that playground women have the game of extorting resources from all the 90% of men who are in the playground. Walk on them. Kick them. Laugh at them. Use them. (Keep in mind they are not being evil)

Now up walks a man to the edge of that playground. He isn’t in the playground. He’s just looking around tether leisurely. Interested maybe.
Those women see him and they know he’s no fool like the others. He’s someone to breed with for the best offspring. From HER viewpoint. Not yours.
So she wants to breed with him. There’s no doubt. No hesitation. He’s a man that owns HIS own playground.

Why does he want that man at the edge of the feminine reality?

So that is why they might be i interested in checking out a guy who has "girls". Because she knows hes not living in there matrix. "What you got going on?"

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well, I wouldn't be talking to them and wasting my time if I wasn't trying to get something from them (number, date, sex, etc.) haha.

They do hold all the power though, I had no control over those situations aside from choosing to engage with them. These women initiated with me and despite doing everything correct it still didn't line up. As I mentioned, they were asking me out and starting conversations with me only to have them change their minds randomly out of nowhere.

Your "power" is choosing to engage in situations where you have "power". Where the female sees you like that and treats you like that.

 

[Ranger]

Here’s the stumbling block. You can’t put new data on top of old data. They are in conflict. This is why pick up artists find the “golden girl” and later they are crushed and whimpering about BPD girls.
They are still little chumps under all that data.
That’s why listening to a lot of advice may work for a while but in the end...you’re toast.

There’s a little b!tch still in you. Let’s say you want to think about something. A woman.
So you look back into your standard memory banks that hold all your experiences.

You then pull out a thought or a solution. Here’s the problem. There’s nothing in those standard memory banks but the feminine imperative little b!tch stuff. It’s really deep. I mean deep. For me I had to find the “linchpin”. There is at least one thing holding your b!tch thought process together.

If you can find that”linchpin”, the whole thing will unravel and lay open.
What can you offer a woman to get her to leave her playground and join you in yours?

This isn’t mine. I got it from my mentor. Spaz. He gets the credit. Now one of these three words was my “linchpin”.

“ you can offer them your version of love. It’s there, where she can find Redemption, protection and femininity”