"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Feed the good wolf

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This little gem was sent to me by - yes - my mom. Funny how these things happen.

Feed the good wolf

One day,
An old American Indian chief
Told his grandson,

"In each of our minds,
There lives a good wolf and a bad wolf,
Who fight each other all the time.
Who do you think wins?"

The young boy hesitated, not being sure,
And finally asked what the answer was.

The wise man answered simply,
"The one you feed, wins."

Don’t fight the bad wolf.
Just choose actions and habits that help you
Become the person you want to be.

Keep feeding your good wolf.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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