"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fear Is A *****

iFEEL

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Fear is for most guys a big guy that beat them up in school. They are just afraid of him. But fear is a large topic. Fear can be separated into thousands of other feelings. Like fear of talking to women, fear of success, fear of getting what you want, fear of saying what you want.

All these ****ty fears have been learned by each individual over the years of watching TV, Movies and listening to your parents. Yeah you remember ! You say a guy in a movie that's **** scared of snakes and you "learn" oh my god snakes must be dangerous I should fear them. And your parents tell you it's dangerous to jump in the sea. And you start fearing it.

**** all these fears. The original source of all fear is the FEAR OF DYING. And as soon as you accept that ONE DAY you WILL BE DEAD you will go eat life with the largest spoon you can find.

You will enjoy every single thing you do, every single emotion you feel. You will be full of energy knowing that MOMENTS are all you have. When you accept the fact that you are gonna die one day you do not care about tomorrow. You do not displace things you become a man of action! You do not talk big game, you just do the things you want and most important YOU JUST DO NOT GIVE A ****.

You do not care about anything, anybody. Everything you do is full of fun and without worries because you know one day it's gonna be the end of your life.

ACCEPT THAT YOU WILL DIE AND YOU WILL START LIVING YOUR LIFE THE BEST YOU POSSIBLY CAN!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Gubby

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2.0 said:
Talk about obvious and unhelpful.

How does this relate to getting women?
Fear of approaching women. Read the DJ bible.


iFeel, it's the topic I've been thinking over just now. The fear of death really is a cause of so much suffering. You know what? Children aren't scared of death! They flee from pain but they don't know about death... and then we're tought to see death like a horrible bogeyman...... I don't think it's even NATURAL to fear death so much! It must have come from all the fuc'king around that religion did to our psyches.......

I admitted to myself recently that I actually wanted to die. I'm not suicidal: you see, I want to live much more. But dying for me would be in some ways a relief. And having this mindset makes me feel so much more free. It gives you a blast of the glorious meaninglessness of it all! The great joke of life! We're stuck between the beginning and the end, and all we can do is dance to the music of life as we were made to, free and yet imprisoned within ourselves:D :D :D Pretty fun if ya think of it.
 
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