IamMyownMan
Don Juan
you don't have to steal a girl away from anyone, when you attract them to yourself...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
f'd a girl with a boyfriend
- Thread starter imarockstar
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
IamMyownMan said:
So tell me, how do you get a girl who is attracted to you and fvcks you, but still has a boyfriend? At some point, you will have to take the girl away from him. Girls are unlikely to have enough backbone to take the initiative themselves. Or maybe you think its better to just sit around and hope that she is single one day? You could turn to dust waiting.
imarockstar
Don Juan
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haha, i dont think ill be able to trust a bytch ever again. the girl in the original post has been flaking lately, think shes feeling guilty, idk. im not speaking to her at the moment. well the other day, this hott ass girl sends me a friend request. she works at the same place i do, but we work different days so ive never met her. she then sends a message saying 'youre really hott, just so you know 
'.... well this girl also has a boyfriend. i dont feel bad one bit. if the guy is not doing his job right, and the girl is unhappy, how is it my problem? its not. shes the cheating bytch, not me.
'.... well this girl also has a boyfriend. i dont feel bad one bit. if the guy is not doing his job right, and the girl is unhappy, how is it my problem? its not. shes the cheating bytch, not me.