"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Biggie

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So one thing i have done that has worked for me is call a girl my favorite. Let me explain. I would say something ****y and funny, or neg hit a girl in a playful way, and then i'd say "you know you're my favorite right?" It works with anyone too. My teacher who is about 35 used to not like me, then i started telling her she's my favorite teacher with a joking smile on my face, and she likes me a lot now. I'm one of her favorite students now. I also used this technique on a girl who i have been with for 8 months now. I used to mess up her hair and tell her to shut up and say she was annoying me, in a joking tone of course, and then i would just say "i'm just messing with you, you know you're my favorite right?" and she is completely in love with me (as i am with her). Just thought i'd share that with you all.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cashew

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Biggie, you're my favorite!


also... LA SoCal or SD SoCal?
 
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