"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fat chicks and how it afects your reputation

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Well I'm kind of ashamed of this, anyways I just woke up and I'm still dizzy from drinking so much.

I went too a party last night, I knew some people there, but they weren't really friends. Anyways I went with a mate of mine and we couldn't get of the tv during ecuador-poland. After that we started dancing and drinking and we soon got wasted. Anyways I remember that at some point all people in the room went out and I was alone with a fat chick and she started kissing me :eek:

My god, its the first time I did this sh!t. :cuss:

Anyways the ***** kept biting my neck, I guess she thought I'm into that sh!t, so I ditched her and started dancing and kissing with another fat chick (all were kind of ugly there, no wonder I got with a ugly one), well if this matters she was a little better looking than the other one.

For the love of God I hope they didn't take pictures of me kissing them.

A good thing is that me and my mate (recently introduced to sosuave) got to know 2 hot chicks when we were not really wasted, we got them home *kiss *kiss

Any of you guys had similar experience?

PS Now I remember why we watched the footy match when we were not drunk: because there were mostly ugly chicks there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is why when im drunk I always remain in control.....Getting off with UGs....I think not!
 

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Its relative... you do lower you status when you are with UG and fatties, esp in the eyes of hotties, but if there are only UGs in there then its different...
 

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Do you think hot girls will get disgusted of you because of it? Think again. If you're a catch they will get ANGRY cause a UG got it and THEY don't, even if they says differently.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No one will give you an ongoing hastles as everyone knew you were drunk. If this a trend - ya' your value will go down.

Just laugh it off.
 

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Espi said:
I'll take an occasional fattie or UG, but I will admit it deflates value. An HB is less likely inclined to associate with a man who is seen exclusively sarging fatties and UG's.

It depends on your audience. If I'm sarging at a hot club full of HB's, well, of course I'm going to sarge the most physically attractive HB. Worst thing can happen is I leave with a HB7 or a fattie at 2 a.m.

Aim high and work your way down. Nothing to lose that way.
I disagree. For the most part, women don't like other women. If a hotgirl sees you with a woman(no matter what she looks like), it raises your chances, not hurts them. This has worked for me many times.
 

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you guys must apply social proof theory... an ug attracting a guy will not threaten a hotty whatsoever.. even if the guy is attractive, she will let the UG have her fun coz she could at any instance, attract the guy over.
 

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Don't worry about it.

There isn't too many relationships that you look around and find an ugly person with a hot person.

At the end of the day, we all have to be resonable about what we can get and what's comfortable for us when we get it, instead of fooling ourselves that we are chasing the same girls that Brad Pitt ****ing lookalikes are.

BTW - When alot of people rate girls here, they're on their own personal scale, I hear alot about HB9 this, HB10 that. News flash : If these people are rated by Donald Trump, they would probably not even be above a 7. Also comparing girls to a actresses/porn stars will also just leave you frustrated.

If your happy pulling these girls and are having a bit of fun then who gives a ****. These people that give you **** are: (BTW - This only applies if they slag you)

a)good looking people - they will laugh more if your not pulling at all - just behind your back. Just defend her and say she was funny, interesting and up for a laugh. You can't compete with these guys when it comes to girlfriends, if they continue to laugh at you, then ****'em, just avoid them as they only have you around to laugh at and make them feel superior.

b)ugly people - by not pulling at all, they think that they're more desirable than what they are because they've never been with an ugly girl. Living a lie and people see through it. They're jealous because you're doing what they want to except can't take the slagging. They just don't see the people laughing behind their back.

As for your reputation with other girls, most girls except you've had a past. I don't know any girls who actually want a guy with a reputation no-matter what the quality. Keep it quite, girls shouldn't know about your one-night stands.

At the end of the day. As Eminem says: "I just don't give a ****"

Don't look for a hottie to validate you. Life doesn't work that way.
 

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I heard a trick about someone taking the UG or fat girl in a group of girls, even some hot ones. This makes the other girls get jealous because they know they look better than her and it's like a tactic of attracting them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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d9930380 said:
If your happy pulling these girls and are having a bit of fun then who gives a ****.
Actually it was quite the opposite. I felt bad about it the whole next day, glad I'm over it now and I actually laughed about it with my friends. I hope I wont have to go through this ever again!

I don't know why girls try to "use" you like that when they see you drunk. I guess its the only way some of them can have a chance with you.

About what other girls think when they see you with an UG, I guess they would try to make you think your value has sunk but in their subconscious they would get a little jealous, like we guys sometimes wonder when we see a HB with an ugly loser: "What does he got that I don't?".
 

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When I was living in Florida, a couple friends and I developed "The Five Test". Quite simply, nobody was allowed to mock you if it was unanimously agreed, post-alcohol, that the girl you bang is at least a 5 on a scale of 1-10. Although promiscuous people tend to be perceived as sluts, the reputation for who you sleep with reflects what options you have available to you, which, in turn, is an indicator of your social value.

The moral of the story kids is don't sleep with fatties unless you're desperate. They're like mopeds. Fun to ride, but you wouldn't want your friends to see you riding one. Better yet, don't ever talk about your conquests, both hot or ugly. It implies confidence, and if you develop a repuation for not bragging, hot chicks will appreciate you more. Hot chicks are the most concerned with the slut title.
 
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