"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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fast cars, theyre NOT impressive

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I'm glad I have a drunk chouffer driving me around in a limo at all times.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ4Real

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If you rely on materials to "attract" people, It shows that you lack skills.

Use your "awesome" personality and the girls are all yours and mine.
 

xomel

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i have a fast car. i race pretty much everyone. sometimes i think girls think im trying to impress them...

haha sorry for grimreapering this thread out of the dead
 

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HA, well gotta agree with the first posters. I do 200+ (km's..) any old free spot of space (94 gsi integra t3/t4 at ~20psi puts ~320 on a mustang dyno on cng). Well when I get to drive anyway lol. Dude who owns it is even worse and lets not fergot the coolness of a liter bike...

OTOH most of the time the riced up ****ers full of vinyl get the most cool points. Weird.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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