"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fashion for the 40s DJ

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, but avoid the temptation to wear shirts that are too tight to show off your muscles. Unless you're aiming to look like an Armenian used car salesman.
Lol, totally agree but it's so subjective. I like casual tailored shirts with sleeves rolled up slightly, well-fitted chinos, loafers or sneakers (for example)..

Or a well-fitted polo shirt not too tight for reason @Bokanovsky posted. It also looks too forced, like he's trying too hard and a bit 'gayish'. Lol. Jmo. Some women may like that look though.

But again so subjective, to each his own and the women attracted him and his look.

Below style. :love:
 

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There is a lot you can do with button down shirts and chinos.

To dress it up, you can add a blazer.

Or could skip the blazer and add a tie and slacks for more formal.
Just one caveat on chinos. Cotton or mostly cotton chinos are prone to shrinkage when you dry or even dry clean them :oops:. DAMHIK lol.

Maybe try ones that have some polyester in the mix.
 
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