"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fake Infields?

Albert Steam

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Anyone have proof one way or the other?

I've seen multiple well known PUA's in person. Rarely do they pull. They are often rejected.

It generally looks like this:


Do you have evidence of pua's using paid actors or otherwise faking results?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MrJack

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Anyone have proof one way or the other?

I've seen multiple well known PUA's in person. Rarely do they pull. They are often rejected.

It generally looks like this:


Do you have evidence of pua's using paid actors or otherwise faking results?
Don’t be a pua, be a man who has swallowed the red pill
 

resilient

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Who cares what PUAs do.

You do you.

Go out in the world and get real world experience in set.

You won't care what some PUA is doing or how his results are. You will have results from interactions figuring out what works and what doesn’t work for you.
 

IKO69

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Yes, it is all bull****. They have backers and are selling a product - of course they hire people to go along with the routine.

The game is a matter of being in the right place at the right time - a numbers game. If that wasn't the case and it was down to the PUA methods the same nerds wouldn't be going to every seminar for more "instruction"
 
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