"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mitch_Mustain

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at a court date, and they've already got a warrant out for you and so you show up to court anyways. Do you still go to jail? Because ****ing, I didnt appear at court but they rescheduled for 7/11/06 and on that date i called in to make sure and they said they didnt have it scheduled and a warrant was out for my arrest since 6/20/06. they ****ed me over and so I'm going to court tomorrow morning to see what my options are rather than being out in the free and getting pulled over and going to jail for sure...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You might get arrested, so be prepared. I missed my court date for traffic court one time and the had a warrant out on me, so I just showed up to open court and the option to pay on the spot, enter financial probation, or go to jail.

I ended up going through financial probation because I didn't have any money, and still didnt pay them. Three years later I get a call from a probation officer telling me that I was going to have a bench warrant, so I showed up and paid my debt and all was well.
 

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Mitch_Mustain said:
at a court date, and they've already got a warrant out for you and so you show up to court anyways. Do you still go to jail? Because ****ing, I didnt appear at court but they rescheduled for 7/11/06 and on that date i called in to make sure and they said they didnt have it scheduled and a warrant was out for my arrest since 6/20/06. they ****ed me over and so I'm going to court tomorrow morning to see what my options are rather than being out in the free and getting pulled over and going to jail for sure...
Bring your toothbrush with you, you'll probably need it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Like I said, they just want your money. Pay up, and jump through their hoops. Breaking probation is a good way to go to jail. AF out west got 18 months for driving with a suspended license after a dui.
 

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whats financial probation
You have to report to there office and pay them money, and your probation ends when once everything is paid off. It isn't anything serious they try to scared you. You will find mostly poor people in financial probation that have the choice of either buying food for their family or paying off their traffic ticket.

Just pay them their money and bounce.
 

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Oh god I went to court today and I ahd to go to court in a different town.....a way different town. ARKANSAS INBRED STEREOTYPICAL ppl all in this courtroom. I was the only person decent enough to wear appropriate attire for court. Everyone else either came in their pajamas, work clothes, or AC/DC t shirts. the court room had no A/C and everyone smelled of B.O. ahhh aweful experience.
 

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Yea I gotta go to court in the near future for a traffic ticket, I sure hope it's nothing like that. I don't think Iowa is too much worse than Arkansas.
 
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