Fail at Push & Pull.

[LinkinParkROX]

So I had a date with my girlfriend today, and after it was over, I happened to realize that I totally failed at Push & Pull kino. I was pushing the whole time; rarely pulling away. Thank heavens she didn't mind. Also, a problem I usually face with kino, is that there's rarely congruence, if you know what I mean. It's more ploppy than congruent. Still, I happened to get laid at the end of the day, which seems good enough. On a side note, I've got a cold that's been going around, and she told me up front she didn't want to kiss me or she'd get it. Yes, she's blonde. I'm all for "being a man" and stuff this website so greatly promotes, but today when that happened, I was totally lost. For the first time in a long time, I had absolutely no idea how to handle this particular situation.

Should I have put my foot down and said "Bitch I'm your boyfriend! You won't kiss me over fucking cold?! Fuck you!" or should I have just been like "Suit yourself. " and just dealt with it. Now that I'm typing this, I'm thinking I should've had a "Whatever, I don't really need to kiss you. " attitude towards the whole thing. Another learning experience I geuss. Like I said, failed push and pull, so I ended up (WRONGGG move) trying over and over again to kiss her. I did succeed twice though, got the cheek the rest of the time. I'm guessing practice with kino over time will fix the push & pull and the congruence problems? Anyone got any other ideas they wouldn't mind floating out there that would help?

 

[CaliGuyInLondon]

she won't get a cold from sucking your ****....

 

[Warrior74]

I have an idea. How about using your damn brain.

Your upset because you have cold and she won't kiss you? WTF dude. I don't want to even see one of my girls when they are sick. I don't need to get sick and miss work and clients because of some chic. You have got to be kidding me. Pull your head out your ass on this one.

 

[scrouds]

How the hell is she going to bring you soup when you're sick if you get her sick too.

 

[playerone]

You're already her boyfriend. At this stage you should have all the f*cking power in the world. You sound like she's someone you just met. I smell desperateness. Reset your frame of mind, and you'll be fine.

 

[Joe Stud]

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Fail at Push & Pull.
So I had a date with my girlfriend today, and after it was over, I happened to realize that I totally failed at Push & Pull kino. I was pushing the whole time; rarely pulling away. Thank heavens she didn't mind

Correct me if I am wrong, but "push pull" is where you "push" them away with ****y (but good natured) remarks and cracks. basically putting them down, or in their place. Then once in awhile you "pull" them back in by grabbing them or kinoing them to show some positive affection, thus confusing their emotions, and keeping her off balance.
You mention pushing, and rarely "pulling away"? Isnt "pushing" a part of pulling away?

 

[Scars]

So I had a date with my girlfriend today, and after it was over, I happened to realize that I totally failed at Push & Pull kino.

Remind me WHY you are worrying about Push+Pull again? This chick is your girlfriend. That sh!t is for the attraction stage. The key point now is keeping the frame of a man. And no, getting mad at her for not kissing you because you have a cold is not being a man. Would you want to catch something from her that could have easily been avoided?

I was pushing the whole time; rarely pulling away. Thank heavens she didn't mind. Also, a problem I usually face with kino, is that there's rarely congruence, if you know what I mean. It's more ploppy than congruent.

Kino should be natural. I just replied to a thread about Kino earlier today, you should take a look at it.

Still, I happened to get laid at the end of the day, which seems good enough.

She didn't mind your pushyness because at the end of the night you still remained sexual. Your a man with needs. Now if you had been cold with her the whole night and DIDN'T fvck her then that would be a problem, and she would most likely easily turn around and find it eslewhere. I think you're over-analyzing this way too much.

On a side note, I've got a cold that's been going around, and she told me up front she didn't want to kiss me or she'd get it. Yes, she's blonde. I'm all for "being a man" and stuff this website so greatly promotes, but today when that happened, I was totally lost. For the first time in a long time, I had absolutely no idea how to handle this particular situation.

Again, I don't see what the big deal was. It was either one of two things. A.) It was her reaction to you being so distant with her. She thought she was being cute by leveling out the playing field. or B.) She genuinely didn't want to kiss you. You can't blame her for not wanting to get sick.

But at the same time, you had sex with her. So what is the problem here?

Should I have put my foot down and said "Bitch I'm your boyfriend! You won't kiss me over fucking cold?! Fuck you!"

No.

or should I have just been like "Suit yourself. " and just dealt with it.

No.

Now that I'm typing this, I'm thinking I should've had a "Whatever, I don't really need to kiss you. " attitude towards the whole thing.

Or you could of had a "Yeah, I understand. I probably wouldn't kiss you if you were sick either." Saying it with a smirk.

Another learning experience I geuss. Like I said, failed push and pull, so I ended up (WRONGGG move) trying over and over again to kiss her. I did succeed twice though, got the cheek the rest of the time. I'm guessing practice with kino over time will fix the push & pull and the congruence problems? Anyone got any other ideas they wouldn't mind floating out there that would help?

One should never have kino problems with a girlfriend. If you can't find the right moment to touch your girlfriend then you have a problem. It's ALWAYS the right time.

 

[Stblack]

Seriously?

You sound like a baby. Why don't you have some kind of consideration?

No one likes to be sick. You're just being an ass by trying to kiss her. If my girlfriend tried to slobber on me when she was sick, I'd flat out push her away. If she kept doing it after I said stop, I wouldn't even talk to the girl.