"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fact Of The Day!!!

bongo

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So everytime I start dating a girl, things go well and it develops into a relationship, I have to assume she's going to cheat?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fact: if you retaliate verbally in any way to a woman, even if she's just torched your '65 Mustang, you have lost. She will make you pay if you retaliate.
 

DonGorgon

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bongo said:
So everytime I start dating a girl, things go well and it develops into a relationship, I have to assume she's going to cheat?
You have to know that by human nature she will mate wit other males.. She does it cause humans are animals.. she will hide it and make up BS reasons cause she is human...

Its up to you to decide the best way to deal with this:

1. denial
2. anger
3. confrontation
4. insecurity.
5. apathy
6. trying to control her more
7. being more of a simp and softy
8. accepting that its unavoidable and you need to ficus on things other than monogamy..
 
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