"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Schwank

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If you view a person's Facebook profile, can that person see who's been looking at their profile. I ask because I've been slyly spying on someone on Facebook, and I'm hoping that they can't see who's viewed their page.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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War Against Betaism

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I doubt it. Supposedly there was a way but I doubt it was true.
 

KnockoutJM

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They can't see that you clicked them. There are some random apps that try to monitor who looks at your photos but most likely it isn't true; One time i looked at a girls pictures and 5 months later i got a post on my wall saying I was the #1 person browsing her pics. So either she is very lonely or its all bull****.
 

It's-Me

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Schwank said:
If you view a person's Facebook profile, can that person see who's been looking at their profile. I ask because I've been slyly spying on someone on Facebook, and I'm hoping that they can't see who's viewed their page.
Why would do you do such a thing anyways?
 

Kailex

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Schwank said:
If you view a person's Facebook profile, can that person see who's been looking at their profile. I ask because I've been slyly spying on someone on Facebook, and I'm hoping that they can't see who's viewed their page.
So you're admitting to being a creeper/stalker?

Why?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Darth_Qurashi

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it only works if u both instal the aplication that views it. then all ur information can be seeen. as logn as u don't accept any of those programs, thers no way.

and dont be ashamed to look at a girl's pictures. Openly admit that u are by commenting on it and saying something witty
 

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Absolutely not. Applications that claim to do so are 100% BS.
 

CuriousGirl

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No, and the applications that claim they can, can't. I vaguely remember someone saying it's against facebook's policy or something.
 

Forty0ztoFreedom

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I browse FB. Its not stalkerish, its just boredom. Its especially fun with complete strangers .. seeing a little bit of their lives. Kind of interesting how there are SO many people in the world, you can just pick one random person across the country and they have this full life going on, where they're the center of the universe.
 
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