"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Young OG

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So I'm going through my fb news feed and I read this (check attachment). The guy who posted this went to school with me, same age, was a huge dork. He ended up marrying some hot blonde who came with 3 kids that aren't his. What pisses me off is how he thought he should have stepped in. The guy that was trying to game, obviously has no game, but the woman never directly told him that she wasn't interested. Then to make things worse, the people that responded to his post were telling him to report the guy to HR for sexual harrasement. He never touched her or said anything sexual. She must have given him her number at some point, if he said ill text you later. They want him to pretty much lose his job because he hit on a co worker. Sad world we live in...
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dustmuffin

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The white knight sounds like the old lady that is the neighborhood busy body. He must like drama too. I bet his wife rules the roost.
 

bmp2cpm

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I disagree with everyone here. He should report it and he's not a white knight. Allow me to explain.

1) Women want men with resources
2) Men these days get resources by working
3) Most career women who work are interested in getting additional resources for their family and have a guy that is giving them resources. These women are mostly not looking to hook up at work with the exception of the branch swingers.
4) A clueless guy who can't get a girl and obsesses about a girl at work is trouble for everyone in the workplace. His actions cause a distraction to other co-workers and interfere with men on the job just trying to work and earn resources for their women.
5) This guy's actions are so out of place that the "dork" reporter is feeling very uncomfortable. Productive workers are comfortable workers.

A clueless man with out-of-control hormones at work gets in the way of everyone. This guy is not a white knight by reporting the incident. He's just looking out for himself and his own resources in order to support his woman and her children. Nothing wrong with that.

HR will get involved, he'll get training, and a warning, and he'll keep his job if he's not really stupid.
 

WanderingMan

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Well, he ended up reporting the guy to HR...
Maybe someone should report that guy for sitting next to her. He was looking and acting creepy. Listening in on her private conversations and ****. **** that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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glass half full

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In my experience, it's best to be like Sargent Schultz of Hogan's Heroes. I know nothing, see nothing, hear nothing. In a workplace, you never really know who are drinking buddies, snitches, gossips, players, etc.
Some folks, especially women and White Knights can be cut throats.
 

dark god

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So I'm going through my fb news feed and I read this (check attachment). The guy who posted this went to school with me, same age, was a huge dork. He ended up marrying some hot blonde who came with 3 kids that aren't his. What pisses me off is how he thought he should have stepped in. The guy that was trying to game, obviously has no game, but the woman never directly told him that she wasn't interested. Then to make things worse, the people that responded to his post were telling him to report the guy to HR for sexual harrasement. He never touched her or said anything sexual. She must have given him her number at some point, if he said ill text you later. They want him to pretty much lose his job because he hit on a co worker. Sad world we live in...
Fire the guy for layin sum non sexual rap down on a lady? Those people need to be slapped.
 

Yewki

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The guy who made the FB post is a lost cause. You can tell he's a pu$$y whipped tool with no spine of his own. The fact he posted crap like this on FB just cements his fate. No hope.

Anyways, you should actually try to show the FB post to his boss. Since he reported it to HR, they're already aware of the situation. But IMO what he posted makes him look even worse than the guy he reported.
 
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