"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Facebook for the summer?

BPH

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Hey guys, some of you that follow my journal would know that I deleted my Facebook several months ago so that I wouldn't spend as much time behind the computer and add a little mystery to my own life.

Well now it's summer, and for me that means that I have go travel a couple miles to see anything hot with a p****.

My question is should I start up my Facebook again? Not to try to game girls online, but to check events and see if anybody is having parties or doing something with females present.

Please get back to me, thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mahoney

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this is the problem with melodramatic things like deleting facebook, deleting numbers, going non-contact all that kind of stuff

dudes swing from extreme to the other...and then back again.
 

PDubb75

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I'm with mahoney.

If you feel that re-creating Facebook now will help you improve your social life, why did you delete it in the first place?

And you say that you don't use Facebook to get girls, so what's the point of being more "mysterious" by not being on there? I feel no need to be more mysterious to my guy friends and girls I have no intention of getting with. So I keep my Facebook.
 

phatboi408

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Yes start up facebook. When I number close I get facebook contacts. That's how I create social proof without actually being there. I get it from girls posting on my wall because I gamed them and from pictures. It's just another way to get social proof and stay in touch with the latest events.
 
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