"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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F*cking a girl on the first night...and being in a relationship

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Okay, so I met this girl one night.. ran excellent game.. banged her within 4 hours of her knowing my existance on this planet.


Called her two days later.. we started hanging out for 3 months SOLID. Almost daily .. things were fun i namely was dating around at the time but kept her as a good FB, not to her knowledge..

Out of nowhere after a month she got my initails tatood on her lower back.. very small..


Well I started developing feelings for her.. we became official.. so now its been 2 months and sh*t sucks.

We had a HUGE fight I was a total as*hole and basically since then she hasnt been the same.

She has guy friends who text her constantly.. she's one of those girls that doesnt get a long with other girls..

So things have been super weird with her and im considering breaking up.. I just don't know what to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think I would break up with her. She has issues if she's willing to tatoo some guys initials on her after only a couple of months. Also I would be wary of the guy friends, the moment their is trouble, and if one of the guys make a move at that point, she'll be vulnerable, bad a bing bad a boom, she's takin some other guy's c0ck in her pvssy.

Be proud that you have the power in the relationship and your not hooked on ONE tiny piece of pvssy when there are literally billions of them on this planet, all there for your taking.

Once you put some distance, she'll likely chase you, its up to you if you want to keep her around as a FB or completely move on (for the better in the long run).
 

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Socrates_ said:
Okay, so I met this girl one night.. ran excellent game.. banged her within 4 hours of her knowing my existance on this planet.


Called her two days later.. we started hanging out for 3 months SOLID. Almost daily .. things were fun i namely was dating around at the time but kept her as a good FB, not to her knowledge..

Out of nowhere after a month she got my initails tatood on her lower back.. very small..


Well I started developing feelings for her.. we became official.. so now its been 2 months and sh*t sucks.

We had a HUGE fight I was a total as*hole and basically since then she hasnt been the same.

She has guy friends who text her constantly.. she's one of those girls that doesnt get a long with other girls..

So things have been super weird with her and im considering breaking up.. I just don't know what to do.
for some reason, i am getting the impression you suspected this from the beginning??

it seems from what you posted that you only were in this relationship because she kindve pointed you in this direction.

??
 

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Socrates_ said:
Out of nowhere after a month she got my initails tatood on her lower back.. very small..


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She's crazy.

End it. You have just dodged a bullet.


Also, stop fraternizing with the riff-raff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go read my thread. End it. My gut feeling told me something is wrong, my gut feeling told me she is lying about another guy. Even though she would deny those facts, she admitted them all to me later.

Plus, this girl sounds crazy, tattooing your initials after a couple of months, I'd freak out.
 

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DavenJuan said:
for some reason, i am getting the impression you suspected this from the beginning??

it seems from what you posted that you only were in this relationship because she kindve pointed you in this direction.

??
Think about it, she didn't just start having guy friends who text her all of the time. Who she is today is the same girl she was when they met, hooked up, hung out with and committed to. None of her actions should be a surprise, except for the tattoo of his initials (a gesture which has probably been already disregarded).
 
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