Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Extroverted outing with a lady friend...* sort of interesting *

pvf94

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Ok, ok....this is either going to sound kind of neat or kind of bizarre. Check it..

This is information involving the same female in my thread here... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=112948 and here...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113727

If you prefer to not read the two, I will break it down in basic essence.

Friends for 3-4 years.
Didnt talk to much out of school.
I asked her to hangout once after not seeing her for 4-5 month's.
Now she is able to hangout basically whenever I want to.

Ok, here is a bit of intro for this one.

Me and my buddy (guy friend) are pretty adventurous and like to explore rural area, or new places, or places where we shouldnt be....basically curious exploration in random places =P. We like to walk down a set a train tracks about a 1/4 mile away from our homes. There are big factories on either side of the train track's, kind of no man's land on the tracks...just alot of shrubbery and vacancy. One day we decided to go and "trespass" and explore one of the gigantic factory area's.....
We found a way to get pass the barb wire fences and such. Than we proceeded to walk around and inspect thing's. After some random wandering around....we noticed that a good majority of door's that led into the factory where left unlocked. (It was a saturday, and all the front and back gates where locked) This lead us to believe the place was basically closed for the weekend. You can guess what happend next....we opened a door leading into the factory and proceeded to explore inside the place. It consisted of darkness, gigantic machines, hot temperatures, cold temperatures, add on buildings, offices, bathrooms, dark ally's, creepy shadows...and other stuff :rockon:

That is a quick version of what we saw. This is basically breaking and entering, on private property, having the ability to take thousands of dollars in tool's and stuff. Mind you we didnt =P

Ok, so the next part to the story.

The girl I referred to in the beginning, well I called her the day before and I imed her a while after she got on aim the next day. Needless to say we have been in contact. I proceeded to ask her if she was doing anything on saturday. She asked why....I told her we should hangout. She agreed, and asked what I wanted to do...after discussing possible activities. She said that she wanted to do something that would possibly get us in trouble....do you know what my instant thought was? Yes....taking her to the factory!

As odd as this may sound, she promised me that saturday night she would go out with me for this little "adventure". And she was totally into it. She hasnt let me down yet, everytime she says let's hangout or if I ask her to hang she is down and never flakes. I am thinking there is plenty of potential to lay down some heavy kino, a kiss, Sex even! Think about it, isolation, nervousness, suspense, closeness to the person with you, and the best part about it, is that I know the way there, I can set the mood, I know where and what to do to get in this place. I have done this before but to her it probably seem's like a big deal.....but to me its something that has been rehearsed....I will be in control of my actions and she will likely be on edge and I might be able to easily manipulate her. I simply told her....lets sneak into a factory and steal a wrench or something just to say we did it....than we can explore the place. She was 100% game.

Am I wrong for seeing this as perfect oppurtunity to make a move on a so called "friend"? I think all the potential in the world is open... Correct me if im wrong.:woo:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sounds good...

if she's attracted to you she'll go for it..

be sure to pack a condom ;)
 
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