"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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extremely depressed right now

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blueline

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I mean, I'm at the peak of my game right now in terms of numbers and had an SNL with a cute number last week, but it's just the constant barrage of rejection after rejection that i can't take. it all seems to be based on some combination of your looks and the girl's self-esteem. everything seems to be completely out of your control. the times i get laid i did almost nothing except say hi, i barely gamed the girl. she just fell in my hands, basically. the last time i got laid, i asked the girl for a cigarette. no more than 10-15 minutes of actual conversation occurred.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GameOfNoGame

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It's sort of like that. How I look can be ok so many women but the occassional one will think I'm the hottest guy they've ever seen but even that won't always seal the deal if some other guy is in their head.
 
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Gameofnogame has got it right, you're a man, its not as easy for you to get laid. You're not a girl that can walk outside and have many suitors. Unless you have money and superstar fame. Don't feel bad, it will happen. Take a break for a while. The rejection is killing you on the inside, get back in the game after a little break. It sucks, been there, done that.
 
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Yeah, life's tough. But there's no point crying about it.

Looks and personality, if the combination is enough, leads to sex, with the exact makeup between the two varying from girl to girl.

Don't just measure yourself by how you do with girls, and try and focus on other positive aspects of your life.

You have two choices:

1) Either wallow in self-pity and complain about how life isn't fair

2) Accept that life isn't fair, and do what you have to, so that it works in your favor.

Good luck!
 
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