"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Extreme Oneitis

D

djbr

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 22, 2004
Messages
962
Reaction score
12
rrrrr said:
I agree with you 100%, if you have hardcore oneitis, it's hard to find another girl that "measures up" to your oneitis just because you built her up so much in your head. If you take your mind off girls completely, you can get over her. I find that's what works. Do an activity that takes your attention. I'm rebuilding a Volkswagen drivetrain for an old beetle, and it has taken my mind completely off an old oneitis. I don't even talk to the oneitis anymore and I doubt I ever will again. I haven't spoken to her since last Wednesday, and that was just her contacting me because she was too busy to talk, but she wanted to see how I was doing....? So I doubt I will be hearing from her again, because I have stopped contacting her.
Click to expand...
This is good advice. Go find something else to do for a while. You'll discover that life has a lot more than just women to focus on.

After that, you can go back, wiser and knowing that there are other things to do with your life, and no woman are that special.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top