londonzen said:
exactly i was thinking thats wat scares like how many ppl on this site are unhinged emotianless robots where pua over takes every thing else, op im not
talking about your dead friend im talking about you.
why would you laugh and feel the need to put this on here, wat your friend was saying was true, ie your basically using him to boost your ego.
i can imagine you walking down the street with him and feeling the need to dominate him to show your alpha ness.
I have been here for 7 years..well on and off.
trust me..most of it, well almost all of it, over 99 percent of it is BULL ****.
don't take it so serious....there is a massive thing with guys here to act all all ****ing hard in all situations that is not realistic.
all of us have family, gfs, some have kids, some deal with family drama, addicts, users, sucessful people, failures..
I wrote on here a few years ago..that I moved in with my grandma at 25, to help take care her...she raised me, made sure I had a chance in life..and multiple guys called me a ***** for it..those guys were probably living on there moms couch.
don't let the BS lying emotionless robots take away from the wonders of this site for you.
This is about learning to control your feelings, not how you feel, so you can enjoy life more, and not get hurt so much, so you can grow up to be a strong man, not some fraud pile of **** who lies on a CPU. overtime you will start to under what this is all about as you go through life's trials.
Right now I am still helping my grandma now that she is 80 she has really slowed down, don't worry I don't live with her anymore. I am helping my mom get to rehab for some issues...I think she is finally making progress but she has to want it. I work hard and enjoy my life.
if I followed some of the posters here..I would leave my gf, see my son as little as possible, put my grandma in a nursing home, tell my mom to **** off, go get 1 bed room loft downtown and pimp it out mofos!!!! wooo...spin me fitty plates and get herpes!
sorry for the sarcasm there is nothing wrong with dating, or ****ing, I was being a bit over the top....
I love my life...but yeah a small part of me missing the game, I am older now, wow.I could do so much...but I also know how quickly unfulfilled it gets after the newness wares off.