"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Expressing your Masculinity/masculine essence without women's approval

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Master Don Juan
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If you couldn't get all the hot babes or cute girls in the world, how would you express your masculinity? For one, basing your masculinity on the amount of girls you can bed is very flawed logic. Guys like George Washington couldn't beget a child and he expressed his masculinity in the battlefield and military leadership. You as a Man needs to get your sense of emotional high and validation which surpasses a woman's approval. Here are somethings I based my masculinity on.

- I don't want to sound religious, but obviously my faith in a higher power or infinite source who provides love and mercy to his fellow man. I read, meditate, pray, take contemplative walks in the park and live a quiet monastic lifestyle.

- My faith brothers, those who are involved in the same faith as me, we gather around and read the scriptures, do community projects together, hobbies and all in all help promote love consciousness to the world.

- My Veteran brotherhood and camaraderie that I have with Military Veterans across the world. I have support groups, I go to groups in Veterans affair and connected to a bunch of guys daily online I can chat up and talk about about some cool topics.

- Martial arts, basketball, Soccer and Firearms training. Just sports where I'm physical and competitive and able to express myself artistically and creatively.

These are just some of the basic examples, what else as you as dude based your masculinity on without a woman's approval? I'm not talking about ego here or being arrogant, I'm talking of coming from a place of peace, serenity and feeling complete like you don't got to prove anything to anyone but yourself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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