"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Something I've noticed about the guys I know that seem to have HB's fighting over them and never really have any problem with women are guys that have one special thing about them that separates them from the herd. Everyone knows them because of the one thing that they are amazing at. It could that a sport or the ability to dance like nobody's business. One guy I know plays soccer and is freakin awesome at it and people recognize him for it even thou nobody at my school gives a sh!t about soccer really. Another guy I know can juggle better than any circus freak and he has to practically beat the girls away with a stick.
Ok point is that I believe everyone has at least one thing they are exceptional at that can lead them to better success with DJing or just making your life a little more interesting. So EXPLOIT it! Let people know what makes you special and go places and do things so people will notice your abilities. If you're good at guitar, join a band, if you can act, find a play or some sort of production, etc. Let the world know how great you are and the world will show respect.

sorry for the long post. Thought it might help thats all
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A agree a lot with this, women love a man who is different than the rest, who sticks out with a special talent.. A great thing to do would be learn how to do a lot of things
 

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Its true. I busk from time to time with a guitar and I got a few numbers when I was only trying to make money, a good advantage to my panhandling. Might've been because I was shirtless too, but hey, whatever works works. In fact, I remember a group of girls listening to me and my friend jam once. She was saying, "Yea everyone has been bringing guitars up here lately." So I got kind of curious and asked her about it, and she explained. "Last time I was up here some kid was getting pushed around on a cart and playing guitar at the same time." I started laughing since she was describing what I did a week earlier.
 
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