"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Exposure and Social Interactions

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Exposure it's the key to any interaction we have in life. We can recognize some different kind of it by different Exposure groups:
-Vast (ex. commercial center, events, disco, etc)
-Immersive (ex. hobby, club, church, etc)

For some reasons, I could get to make friends, or actract girls easy on immersive rather than the vast social groups.
I remember that for 10 girl I met, at least 5 of them were actracted by me on the Immersive social group, while on the vast, maybe 1. (This could be some kind of funny thing or just something having to do with science underneath.)

Which are considered the most POWERFUL "exposure places" for the Vast and Immersive Social Circles, if you want to do "tests", like studying "IOI/D", see how people behave to You, see how woman notice You or not in the first instance, and many other stuff?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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