Experiment

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

tesla8520

Senior Don Juan

Monday at 1:13 PM

Hi friends!

I did a little experiment, and I don't know why, but it worked.
I read romance novels for 3 months straight.
You know what women read? Basically, porn for women.

I don't know why, but in these 3 months, I've had more sex than ever, and I've had twice as many women.
I also noticed that women were glancing at me more often, or just being more closer to me, or asking, opening out for me.
I don't know why, but if the saying "we are what we think" is true, then maybe this did something.

Just an experience I wanted to share.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.