"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Existentialism and females

_sideways_

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It all does or doesn't matter.
I'm super intrigued by learning new languages and meeting new people.

But we all feel that pull from our society to marry, procreate...am I thinking like a cyborg when I say I don't see us as a species doing anything but harm to ourselves?
Think about this... Beautiful female marries. Boorish male. Have child.
Why?
Security, etc, if said female was wise to understand how ....ugh...forget it.

I feel bewildered because all these up and coming young cats type so much and I'm reading it. Too many cooks as it were.
I'm starting my own way of living. S.s. id like to thank you.

Who created SS BTW
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bro, you need to think about YOU and get that confidence back. Forget the women for now, get in shape, new clothes etc and work on YOU! Because as you well know, if you don't like you, no one else will either.
 
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