"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Exclusive Master DJ forum requested

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Master Don Juan
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It's been discussed widsely on this forum about the newbies are cluttering up the discussion forum.

While it's their right as much as mine to be here, I think that there should be a special Master DJ-only forum for people like Gio, Cyclonus, Trickynick, Bohomme, Wyld, crowes, and all the other long term residents (myself included) to go to and post privately in.

We're not out to replace the General Discussion forum with a competing Master DJ discussion, but sometimes we would like a little privacy.


I'm starting a petition. if you wantto sign, please post accordingly.


Petition:
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NeXuS

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No. This idea is idiotic.

While something does need to be done about the newbies, this is not the way.

I'm not entirely sure about how Allan makes money, but if he does want to limit forum members he could simply close registration. That way they could still view the forum, but not post. He could maybe open registration at set times, ensuring that people who want to post will have the ability to post.
 

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Personally, I see one really big problem with that. If you take all the 'Master DJs' and stick them in a private forum that no one else can enter you will subtract some very important content from the regular forums.

Several of those you have listed are major contributors to the forum(s) and add quite a bit. Even the ones I personally disagree with still bring something to the table. I would hate to think that content would be stuck somewhere I couldn't read it and learn from it.

Without content from experienced people newbies will forever remain newbies. Master DJs are these experienced people (for the most part). Even they were newbies at some time and some were even been guilty of occasionally posting redundant questions (topics already discussed in another post).

I agree it is annoying to have to put up and filter through these posts in order to get at the content you want (or disagreeable responses like this
). But I also think a private forum has the potential to do more harm to the site than those other posts ever will.

Anyway, I know this post is meant for supporting the new forum but I just wanted to get in my 2 cents on the subject.


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Giovanni Casanova

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lol

DAMMIT NO!

I love the f*cking newbies! Leave em alone!
Why are you people always trying to spoil my fun?



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CASANOVA

"Now when you talk with her, I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie that everybody really hopes makes it happen. I want you to be the guy in the rated-R movie who you're not sure if you like yet."
- Trent in "Swingers"

"Woman was God's second mistake."
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844 - 1900)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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