"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Examples of women's TESTS...

Champ1

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You know what I'm talking about guys. Women use these stupid tests with guys all the time to see if they're worthy MEN. I guess they want to see if you have a backbone and will stand up to their stupid tests. For example, they will test to see if they can control and manipulated you by saying, "will you get me that _____ over there" to see if you will do it for them.

They want you to pass their tests, of course, but really they want you to laugh at their silly games and let them know that you are a real man and don't play that stupid shyt!

Do you guys have any tests that women use on guys or have ever experienced from a woman that you can share. It helps everyone here to recognize some of the games that these manipulative chicks try to play so that everyone can recognize them and laugh them off before they get started. Because, if they keep trying to use tests on us, it's better to next them and find someone who doesn't play so many stupid ass games!
Champ
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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*ahem* might i add to this?

Not all women test. Yeah, every now and then we'll say something to see what you say in return, and if we like it, alls good. But dont men also "test" women as well?

And no, it isnt for our enjoyment, and we dont want to be told by a man that he doenst take our sh1t. i'd find that insulting. its to find a suitable mate.

Its really no big deal, anyways.
 

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OF COURSE WE TEST!!!!! We test the hell out of you guys! Smart women qualify every guy they meet in 10 thousand ways!

*Do you open the door for us?
*Do you hold the umbrella if it rains?
*Do you offer your jacket if it gets cold?
* Do you like what that other girl is wearing?
*What do you think about so and so?
*Darling can I borrow your car?
*Does your mother like flowers?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl is talking to my friend for quite a while, shows signs of interest and so on, and at one moment says:
- You'd be a great brother!
 

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The best response to any tricks or tests is no reply.
 

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No, its either crushing it, playing it off or hitting it back harder...
 
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