Ex Plate back in contact.. what to do?

[LondonTowers]

So this is an ex plate that I kinda messed up with in the summer.. I went out with her for like 6 weeks.. didn't manage to escalate to sex, though was did everything else. I called her out on banging some other dude, while we were dating. So felt pretty strung along and after a discussing things on the phone where she was all defensive, I cut her out and have been no contact for 6 weeks. You must know, that I have known this girl casually for years and she did try it on with me a few years back, but I was in a relationship. Anyway.. within the no contact, she started texting me at first with casual things like how she saw a movie I recommended.. I didn't reply.

Then she next week she was like, can you not just tell me if you don't want to talk.. I didn't reply.

Another week and she text me with if she will ever see me again and she misses me.. I didn't reply.

Another week, she asked me if I want to come over and see her new apartment.. I didn't reply.

Then suddenly last week she start texting or calling nearly everyday. Her last text a couple days ago was completely pleading to talk to me.. she was begging, saying she has things she needs to tell me.

I still haven't replied. What should I do? My no contact seems to have made her go a bit crazy.. should I let her talk to me.. do you think I could get a bang out of this?

My main hesitation is she might feel I walked away with ease making her feel like a slvt and she might be doing some ego validation thing to make herself feel better. Or maybe it didn't work out with the other guy and I can get some easy pvssy.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

It sounds like she misses attention from you - badly. You were keeping her preoccupied while "the master" was away making money/slaying other girls. Calling her out on this probably only reinforced and made it much more clear that you are/were the doormat, other dude, the god. Basically any situation that's built around or a permutation of "how do I get this one girl to reciprocate!? Argghh!!" is a disaster waiting to happen. Forget her but don't forget all the little things that kept you around as her validation fix and nothing more.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Text her at 3am when you're rat-arsed drunk and invite yourself over "for a nightcap". If she declines, keep ignoring her.
Doing that will let her know you just want to bang which will either force her to reveal her hand and fvck your brains out or whinge and whine about how much of an arse you are. If she does the latter, ignore completely.

 

[LMFAO]

Yep previous poster is what I would follow in this sort of situation

I would send her just a question mark "?" late at night. When she responds ask her "where are you right now?", then invite her over or to hers.

As retarded as it sounds, I think this is the simplest way to bring her back into your world, even if it ends up being for a one time bang.

 

[latinnova]

Dude, just ask if she wants to meet up for a drink, get the ball rolling and see where it leads. If she flakes then be done with her. Why not take the chance? It can't hurt anything. You have two possible outcomes, getting some pvssy or a flake. You can live with either outcome. After some time of NC she will lose feelings for you and move on. Right now it seems as if her interest is peaking, soon to be falling. Better get it at it's peak.

 

[LondonTowers]

What if I go over and she doesn't let me f*ck her and just wants to talk and say sorry and hope we can be friends. I'll feel like a fool then! She text me on Saturday.. should I pop over this Friday and don't let her talk and just be like, throw a movie on and start feeling her up through the movie, then just fu*k her? Give me tips chaps! I think I only have this week as she is probably starting to feel now she will never here from me again after her lat pleading text. So I should hit it now as she will be surprised to here from me. What frame should I have going in.. that doesn't let her get all talky?

 

[soden]

Best advice already posted...

text her late at night, atleast 11pm "?".
If she answers, invite her over and bang her.

 

[GS750]

If she drops the LJBF B.S. on you, then you worry about it when the time comes. But that's when you really go NC. Like fall off the face of the earth NC. But for now you have to try to schedule a meet and see if she bites. If she declines, ignore for a few months.