"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ex-girlfriend doesnt want to get picked up?

Paarth Shah

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I was a needy little b1tch before I became red pill aware. She broke up with me about 2 months ago. I been spinning plates, having fun once I found this community. She called me out of blue last week to connect. I played it cool, no sh1ts given, and called her back after 5 days to set up a day date. I've dropped her off and picked her up from her house in the past several times, but she seems to put up resistance at the idea of me picking her up for our date on Sunday. Why? Does she not trust me enough anymore?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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soulforge

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I was a needy little b1tch before I became red pill aware. She broke up with me about 2 months ago. I been spinning plates, having fun once I found this community. She called me out of blue last week to connect. I played it cool, no sh1ts given, and called her back after 5 days to set up a day date. I've dropped her off and picked her up from her house in the past several times, but she seems to put up resistance at the idea of me picking her up for our date on Sunday. Why? Does she not trust me enough anymore?
Like you said, you behaved like a NEEDY bich!

She aint gona just forget how beta you are, in a matter of just two months.. She is having doubts about you, because she does not feel your her number one guy!

Learn from this experience, grow, and stop being so fuking needy..
 

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Why? Does she not trust me enough anymore?
It's not a question of trust here.

She can just smell that pvssy-ness in you and she doesn't want to deal with it if and when you excrete more juices.

She'd has her escape plan.

She meeting you is just knowing and maintaining that u r her b1tch wherever she calls. You did even offered to fetch her like a good little dog in heat...

Congratulations on ur Red Pill awareness
 

skinnyguy

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The fact that you made this a post shows you’re still whipped. Don’t call this girl
 

Paarth Shah

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It's not a question of trust here.

She can just smell that pvssy-ness in you and she doesn't want to deal with it if and when you excrete more juices.

She'd has her escape plan.

She meeting you is just knowing and maintaining that u r her b1tch wherever she calls. You did even offered to fetch her like a good little dog in heat...

Congratulations on ur Red Pill awareness
Damn, I sound that pathetic huh?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In my experience, if you are sure she doesn't have another guy living there with her, it's usually one of two things:
1. She doesn't want you to be in control of the logistics of the date - when she gets to go home, etc. Usually this only happens when she doesn't know you yet and she's learning whether she can trust you to not turn her into a skin suit (first or maybe second date).
2. Keeping you far away from her door-step ensures no awkwardness where you offer to take her inside or walk her to her door and she has to reject you, because she's just not interested in you romantically. Just like MidnightCity said - not letting you pick her up is her covert way of telling you this is platonic only.

I always tell a girl I'll pick her up for the second date and beyond. I'll accept a "let's meet out instead" for the second date, but if she's doing that on the third date and beyond, then I pull away. It means lack of interest or someone who is too structured to be what I'm looking for.
 
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