"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would it bother anyone here if they were just browsing through there partners calendar on wall to see who's birthday was where and at the back u came across there ex's birthday.
We split for 3 weeks (well on off in 3 weeks) and she said that she did this to P*** me off when we fell out.
I found it last night and i went a bit paranoid and asked why she would put his name on if she has been split from him for 7 months and going out with me since.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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it should not matter to you atall unless she does something to disrespect you then get rid of her. you cant be getting paranoid or worrying about little things like a calender date. thats the thing with some of you guys. once you get the girl you forget about the game. keep your head in the game!!!!
 
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so me asking her about it and getting annoyed and upset and telling her she must have feelings for him to have marked his birthday in is her winning the game and me losing. She said she done this to p*** me off so maybe her little plan worked, and now she can see of my reaction that im little insecure about her ex.
 
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