Everything you need to know about Daddy Issue's!

[soulforge]

I found this video on YouTube, absolutely a fascinating breakdown on girls with daddy issues/BPD & Narc traits.

This also describes my recent experience with a Damaged girl to an absolute T.

Would highly recommend you guys watch this video & save yourself from the chaos you will experience by getting entangled with this type of woman.

Thank me later lol

 

[Bigpapa]

I found this video on YouTube, absolutely a fascinating breakdown on girls with daddy issues/BPD & Narc traits.

This also describes my recent experience with a Damaged girl to an absolute T.

Would highly recommend you guys watch this video & save yourself from the chaos you will experience by getting entangled with this type of woman.

Thank me later lol

“Daddy” issues does not necessarily also means that she is damaged goods

Maybe her father was older than her mother, maybe her father did not spend a lot of time with her but she knew that he loved her, maybe her father was an 1di1ot and she had a different role model ( an uncle for example ) , or her father did not show any affection, etc

Now, that neurotic women also come from families that are f8cked it is very true, but the family does not necessarily has to be f8cked up in order for a woman to like older men

Just as there are girls with daddy issues, so are guys with mommy issues

Till I was like 25 years old I always dated girls older than me ( a couple of years difference ). But then I realized that girls as they age become more and more f8cked up and also “cured” my mommy issues by then

 

[CornbreadFed]

Nobody is forcing y’all to date these girls

 

[Bokanovsky]

Thank you, but who needs a forty minute explanation about daddy issues?

Just send those damaged girls my way.

What are you, a garbage collection depot?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

The second somebody offers you a "Consultation" before saying if they are accredited to offer said consultation is a big turn off for me, on that basis alone in good on the video

Only thing worse than a woman with daddy issues is a guy with financial issues lol

 

[soulforge]

Thank you, but who needs a forty minute explanation about daddy issues?

Just send those damaged girls my way.

Just ignore this thread then mate. Let the guys who need the insight

What are you, a garbage collection depot?

Yeh just ship out the damaged goods to him.

 

[obelisk]

IDK, I think the daddy issues thing is a bit overplayed.

BPD is just the female condition and narcissistic personality traits are closely tied to women's solipsism. BPD can also be dialed up by increasing alpha behaviors and not providing comfort. Literally think Depp v. Heard. Sometimes providing comfort (read: beta behavior) keeps a girl from cutting off your finger and sh*tting in your bed.

I quite seriously think you can train the daddy issues out of a girl, but it takes a much stronger man to do so.

"Women are water. They fill the shape of the man who holds them." - Rian Stone

I think it's a bit dangerous to downplay how much BDP can influence a girl's behavior and the risk you take on as a guy if you underestimate it.

 

[soulforge]

“Daddy” issues does not necessarily also means that she is damaged goods

Maybe her father was older than her mother, maybe her father did not spend a lot of time with her but she knew that he loved her, maybe her father was an 1di1ot and she had a different role model ( an uncle for example ) , or her father did not show any affection, etc

Now, that neurotic women also come from families that are f8cked it is very true, but the family does not necessarily has to be f8cked up in order for a woman to like older men

Just as there are girls with daddy issues, so are guys with mommy issues

Till I was like 25 years old I always dated girls older than me ( a couple of years difference ). But then I realized that girls as they age become more and more f8cked up and also “cured” my mommy issues by then

I don't think you can look at one thing, she doesn't have a daddy, therefore she has daddy issues.

Various other indicators & behaviours have to be taken into consideration.

 

[soulforge]

Yes, I tie them up in neat little packages, to their delight.

You sound like a serial killer.

 

[soulforge]

I think it's a bit dangerous to downplay how much BDP can influence a girl's behavior and the risk you take on as a guy if you underestimate it.

You make a good point. Fathers being absent is a huge problem in the West, so the chances of getting involved with a BPD/Daddy Issue's girl, are so much higher.

Like I said before, look at all her behaviours, not just, "oh she didn't have a father, she must have issues" not having a father alone does not mean she is crazeee.

Promiscuity
High alcohol use
Always dates much older toxic men like chad/fuk boys/NARCs/Losers
A string of failed relationships
Has a problem with boundaries & authority
Takes medication for mental health issues
Has childhood Trauma like Sex-ual abuse

If she is very young and always dates much older Alpha men, then you best bet she has been Alpha widowed several times.

 

[soulforge]

That is true. I guess I meant that all girls are BPD, just not necessarily to a severe degree. It's definitely not specific to girls with daddy issues, though it does tend to be more prevalent in those types.

BPD helps a girl into your frame, but it's also what makes her stab you while you're asleep because she had a dream that you cheated on her.

If a girl is pushing a 10 on the BPD Richter scale, maybe invest in some body armor and remove sharp objects from the home before bedding her.

This is spot on. You can't look at just one flag.. She doesn't have a father.

If you're seeing 2-3-4-5 different indicators, one of the biggest being childhood Trauma/sexual abuse, then yeh very likely you got crazy times coming your way.

 

[Bigpapa]

This is spot on. You can't look at just one flag.. She doesn't have a father.

If you're seeing 2-3-4-5 different indicators, one of the biggest being childhood Trauma/sexual abuse, then yeh very likely you got crazy times coming your way.

I”ve see more f8cked up girls coming from good families ( where the father was strict )

And then hoeing is just a way to get back at him

 

[soulforge]

I”ve see more f8cked up girls coming from good families ( where the father was strict )

And then hoeing is just a way to get back at him

These are likely acceptions to the rule, the outliers.

Girls from broken families, single mom upbringing, no father figure to guide her or protect her.. These girls will look for a masculine figure in other ways, mostly by notching up the body count.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Yes, I tie them up in neat little packages, to their delight.

You sound like a real humanitarian!

 

[Cowboy-Cheems]

These are likely acceptions to the rule, the outliers.

Girls from broken families, single mom upbringing, no father figure to guide her or protect her.. These girls will look for a masculine figure in other ways, mostly by notching up the body count.

Another thing I have seen is the occurrence of the "man-child" as a father. Girls with fathers who spent their time off of work playing videogames or barhopping would often see their father as an older brother rather than a dad. I always looked 5 to 10 years older than my actual age, so I would often attract women around my age with the "man-child" father by simply acting in a mundane adult manner and often have them obsessed with me as a result. I would simply say responsible adult statements like "Don't do that, that's dangerous." and they would practically melt as a result.

 

[Bigpapa]

These are likely acceptions to the rule, the outliers.

Girls from broken families, single mom upbringing, no father figure to guide her or protect her.. These girls will look for a masculine figure in other ways, mostly by notching up the body count.

I believe that your point of view is mainly old school and not extremely relevant to present days

As we speak, the vast majority of people have an existential void ( including those from “good” families ) . Existential void leads to aggresivity, promiscuity, substance abuse, basically towards “pleasure” and aggressiveness

For example, Social media addiction is not per se the cause but a symptom of wider problems

I also now I understand what some other old gents were saying and I could not really understand their point of view till now. They all have a lot of sense in what they are saying, but they assume that most people found some sort of meaning of life … which is very far away from the truth

This also explains the bitterness of women that reach or pass the 30 years old mark. They did not found the meaning of life so they “indulged” and some time later they still did not find the meaning of life but also realized that they got old, which naturally leads to depression and bitterness

 

[saige]

Nobody is forcing y’all to date these girls

Thank you.

Just eject at the first sign of a red flag, just as women should eject as soon as they feel the vibes being off. Saying that a bpd woman who you’ve dated for YEARS and who ruined your life is wild. Same goes for girls who blabber on about how their dark triad man or whatever gave them mental trauma for life. No one is forcing you to date crazy people…

What’s funny is that dudes nowadays (in my generation) are saying how they love crazy girls. There’s even a trend on social media where girls are like “said he likes crazy girls, but he acts when I act crazy” depicting behavior like keying his car or stalking his snap score.

I’ve heard a guy say that girls who are too “nice” are too plain, vanilla, boring. They secretly love the drama, excitement, the uncertainty that a crazy girl brings to their life. It is the equivalent of push and pull, hot and cold, or the negging techniques. Just like how women crave the bad boy sometimes. Is that a sign of “mommy issues?”

 

[Cowboy-Cheems]

Thank you.

Just eject at the first sign of a red flag, just as women should eject as soon as they feel the vibes being off. Saying that a bpd woman who you’ve dated for YEARS and who ruined your life is wild. Same goes for girls who blabber on about how their dark triad man or whatever gave them mental trauma for life. No one is forcing you to date crazy people…

What’s funny is that dudes nowadays (in my generation) are saying how they love crazy girls. There’s even a trend on social media where girls are like “said he likes crazy girls, but he acts when I act crazy” depicting behavior like keying his car or stalking his snap score.

I’ve heard a guy say that girls who are too “nice” are too plain, vanilla, boring. They secretly love the drama, excitement, the uncertainty that a crazy girl brings to their life. It is the equivalent of push and pull, hot and cold, or the negging techniques. Just like how women crave the bad boy sometimes. Is that a sign of “mommy issues?”

Nah, mommy issues would be a guy that looks for a more grounded girl so he can submit to her and she can take of him. Guys only ever actively seek out crazy women because they are substantially easier to sleep with, due to their hyper-impulsive nature. Most I know (myself included) love the sex, but hate the drama immensely. I am reaching a point where I am starting to realize that some cooch is simply not worth my sanity, though the temptation is still definitely there.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I found this video on YouTube, absolutely a fascinating breakdown on girls with daddy issues/BPD & Narc traits.

This also describes my recent experience with a Damaged girl to an absolute T.

Would highly recommend you guys watch this video & save yourself from the chaos you will experience by getting entangled with this type of woman.

Thank me later lol

Correlating to dad issues, unhappy depressed girls...

Often this is a part and product of her past history with her family.

 

[saige]

Most I know (myself included) love the sex, but hate the drama immensely.

That makes sense, thanks for clarifying the thought process on why craziness might be tempting (they’re more likely to be promiscuous). but some dudes genuinely like the drama too. If that weren’t the case they’d leave earlier IMHO

I don’t have sympathy for people who claim to hate crazy people but ignore every red flag. I get that starting off dating you can be naive but for the people that have been dating crazies for years… yeah no

I’ve already learned from my first relationship and am dating someone whose much more mentally stable. Infatuation is def a high but you need to learn how to eject and not hope the other person will change. It only takes one failed relationship to realize where you went wrong and your blind spots when it comes to red flags.