"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Everyone says she likes me...

Stuff64

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Theres this girl that I've always thought as just a good friend. But, recently, everyone keeps telling me that she likes me. They say shes always all over me, and stuff like that. I've never even noticed. What should I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stuff64

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gRiM999 said:
casually flirt with her. and all girls you are interested in, for that matter.
I'm not sure if I want to risk it. What if my friends are wrong?
 

Michael Chief

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heres a hard truth for ya, stuffyboy. in the world of males and females, the males are always the one that have to take the risks. you know what they say: "they greatest risk in life is to never take one at all"

and besides, this isn't even that risky lol
just use subtle, casual, natural flirting. or just confident playfulness, at least.
hell, use any style of flirting that fits your personality the best, whether it be using neg hits or tension loops. whatever u want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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