"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Everyone put MuscleDude on ignore

Demon

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Ignoring MuscleDude is the worst thing you can do to him because he's an attention-*****. Banning him only removes him from the room. Ignoring him tortures him.

I've already added him to my ignore list.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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be an ass like you were a month ago and you will be too. ;)
 

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Put it this way, Oxide: I get invited to DJ chats. To my knowledge, you've not been invited to one in my presence.

Have a nice day! :)
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by Demon
Put it this way, Oxide: I get invited to DJ chats. To my knowledge, you've not been invited to one in my presence.

Have a nice day! :)
That would change if Oxide would post his screen name...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Demon
Put it this way, Oxide: I get invited to DJ chats. To my knowledge, you've not been invited to one in my presence.

Have a nice day! :)
just curious but what goes on during these chats?
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
just curious but what goes on during these chats?
Everything but talking about Don Juaning, lol. Politics, slight homosexuality (that was...interesting), and many more...
 
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