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Is there a type of guy that most woman are attaracted to regardless of age or race? Sometimes it seems that way. Of course all people are not the same. Im talking about physical attractiveness. Thats right "looks". The whole looks debate centers on how a person looks on the outside. Face, hair, height, weight, and muscle mass. Im not talking about personality or anything like that. If you base level of attractiveness solely from a visual stance, which is something we do everyday. Is there a prototypical dude out there that can communicate well with all women just because he "looks" attractive? IF so what characteristics would this "ideal" guy have?
 

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This prototypical guy you speak of , whats your getting at is, 'he's very good looking'...the rest of the features I think are pretty common between this guy ssymmetrical features, chiseled jaw, thin lips, low hair line , tall and basically look like antonio sabato jr.
 

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SuperChillies said:
This prototypical guy you speak of , whats your getting at is, 'he's very good looking'...the rest of the features I think are pretty common between this guy ssymmetrical features, chiseled jaw, thin lips, low hair line , tall and basically look like antonio sabato jr.

You'll find slimming down if you have decent bone structure will bring out a stronger jaw line and b*tches love that. The prototype that they love will be better looking than avg. in such a state. Funny thing is some guys that would be good looking are overweight and hurt their game b/c of it. They get fatter faces etc. Its like broads...you probably pass 100 women a day that if they dropped fat and got in serious shape would be HB8's or higher. Take care of your body and that's 75% of the battle w/looks...other 25% is random luck.
 

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Remember that most girls are insecure, even if they are hot they're very very often intimidated by the "Alpha male" or would rather make fun of his "head up his arse"ness rather than go out with him.
 

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Sure the more typical HB with class (ie 2% of female population) will go with the classy Tall, Dark, Handsome look (ie George Clooney and alot of real metros) The trashy HB (3% of female population) will go for jocks and meatheads. The HB1-HB7's of this world can only dream of fukcing the first case but since the first case doesn't pay them any attention they resort to ons with the second case and forms 'relationships' with the rest of the clueless male population.
 

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I guy who compliments her. The most beautiful girls on this planet NEVER get compliments. Odd, but true. They are not "Daddy's Little Princess". English and Western European society has a way of spoiling all females. I have made several amazing looking girls tear up by simply giving them a legit compliment.

In saying this, every woman's ideal man is a guy who has more than the other guys around her. If you have more than what she sees everyday you win. Such guys are the hunted - Not the hunter. It has nothing to do with looks. As long as you are not obese and dirty you will be chased if you are a bigger winner than what she deals with on a daily basis.
 

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sparky0000 said:
I guy who compliments her. The most beautiful girls on this planet NEVER get compliments. Odd, but true. They are not "Daddy's Little Princess". English and Western European society has a way of spoiling all females. I have made several amazing looking girls tear up by simply giving them a legit compliment.

In saying this, every woman's ideal man is a guy who has more than the other guys around her. If you have more than what she sees everyday you win. Such guys are the hunted - Not the hunter. It has nothing to do with looks. As long as you are not obese and dirty you will be chased if you are a bigger winner than what she deals with on a daily basis.
I find backhanded complements work well. I don't use complements to often and what do u mean by winner?
 

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sparky0000 said:
I guy who compliments her. The most beautiful girls on this planet NEVER get compliments. Odd, but true. They are not "Daddy's Little Princess". English and Western European society has a way of spoiling all females. I have made several amazing looking girls tear up by simply giving them a legit compliment.
Are you sure it isn't the fact that it was taken as a legit compliment? I mean you can have girls ask "do I really look nice in this", and their GF or some guy in the area say it looks just fine or great, but they don't believe it.

I mean there is difference between "you look nice" or "you have a fine butt" from a drunk guy, and you going out of your way and saying "you know, I think you're one of the prettiest girls around here, and I think you'll make some guy really happy someday...I really do".

Again, big difference. I actually tried that line with a female friend who recently broke up with a BF she's been with for 4 years. Even if she's in no mood for a relationship (and I don't care to be the rebound guy), she's been talking to me a lot more often than before the compliment.

Also, as said before, some of these amazing looking women suffer from depression or have crap going on in their lives, and an honest compliment (not just a "you look nice") is sometimes the best thing that happened to them all day. Fake or superficial compliments are common. Legit and honest compliments are not.
 

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What I've learned is that there's no such thing as a guy that ALL women go for because tastes vary. Some women like fat guys who are really sweet, others like skinny guys with bad attitudes, but that's basically their niche.

The guys with the highest appeal and highest odds are those who are generically attractive or media attractive. Basically, if you look like a model, movie star with a defined physique and trendy style, you may exclude the odd woman with unique tastes, but you will appeal to a majority of women who live in a media fantasy.
 

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don't waste any brain cycles on "what women want"

If you do then you are nothing but an AFC and you need a good ass kicking
 

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Women want a leader.

Looks vary for every girl, but every girl wants a leader in one form or another.
 

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I've actually done some research on this. Obviously there is no one ideal man that 100% of women all agree on. However, women tend to find men with a light build (not super skinny, not freakishly large) who are tall (I'm not sure on actual dimensions, I assume 6' is considered tall), and darker in skin tone (not pasty white or super dark). They also tend to prefer men who are confident, free of mental defects, have clear skin, etc.

Now go to several malls in a big city and watch all day long the couples. You will see different kinds of guys with hot chicks especially depending on if you're in the city or the suburbs but in most malls you will see some selection.

Guys with acne get hot chicks.

Guys with blonde hair and pasty skin get hot chicks.

Black guys get hot chicks.

short guys get hot chicks.

etc.

There is almost no man who (using the correct strategy and though process) is incapable of having hot chicks in his life. If you're attractive and well dressed, then more women will open you, but if you act weird it won't do any good.
 

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persiangino said:
Sure the more typical HB with class (ie 2% of female population) will go with the classy Tall, Dark, Handsome look (ie George Clooney and alot of real metros) The trashy HB (3% of female population) will go for jocks and meatheads. The HB1-HB7's of this world can only dream of fukcing the first case but since the first case doesn't pay them any attention they resort to ons with the second case and forms 'relationships' with the rest of the clueless male population.
This is strange, I myself was a down and out loser for most of my life, even though I am powerfully built and I can fight, I never had very much success with the trashy hot babes whom I met at drug rehab centres, the types who you see with bikies miners construction workers, or in other terms the guys who have tats wear denims and torn shirts and drink alot of grog in animal bars, though I was always able to allure the more sophisticated classy hot babes who were employed in those places as Social Workers Psychologists and Occupational Therapists etc, this kind of shocked me because I always thought that they should have been much harder for me to attract, yet they didn't show any interest in the jocks who were there at all, though the trashy hot babes were all over these guys and completely ignored me.
These days I am highly educated and do so much better with the pretty rich girls than I did the pretty poor ones, I don't know why this is the case though I am happy that it is.
 
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