Ever use your knowledge of DJ stuff to DJ?

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Let me explain.

I was in a conversation with a girl from Myspace who happens to go to my University.

I messaged her on myspace with a few bits of corny cold reading, which she found amusing, added me as a friend, and that was it. Then I messaged her the next day with DeAngelo's line "what no reponse? are you playing hard to get already?"

She laughed at that in her response and gave me her yahoo name.

I chatted up with her on yahoo for a few hours during which I asked her if she was into pop psychology and other stuff, and mainly I told her that I liked to study male-female interactions.

I had a discussion with her about DeAngelo's material about attraction gave her some examples of good and bad things a guy can do to which she kept saying that it was pretty much what was happening.

It ended up with me talking about how the wrong way to ask a girl out is to say "can i buy you lunch, dinner, whatever" and the right way would be to just say "lets do lunch" or something to that effect, so that youre not coming from a place of needyness.

She laughed and said I had a good point.

Then I said "so... lets do lunch lol" and she said "sure lol" and then I said "I'm serious" and she says she was too!

I followed up with "give me your cell", the numbers came right out, I asked if thats the number she actually answered she said yeah so I called her and we chatted on the phone for 20 minutes. One of the first words out of her mouth was "im very impressed, you get it!" lol...

We tried to set up our little lunch date but I'm busy all week but friday and she is working friday, so we said we'll see about next week.

Not bad eh?

 

[Casino]

pretty good implementation of DD's stuff. i'm currently doing a little myspace experiment. so far i've got a couple pu$$y shots emailed to me. these chicks are pretty much attn. *****s..but that was to be expected. not sure where im going with this post but I think I usually use the same tactics on myspace.

opinion opener - you seem really bored

her - OMG, yah..how did you know....

me - im a good judge of character...

her - yes you are

me - leads the convo and make her qualify herself...

TIP -

use this line: Wow, i don't know..you seem alright for a myspace chick but im a little apprehensive about hooking up with one.

A. You qualify her. Generally she'll start telling her what sets her apart from them

B. You use an assumptive close. You basically are telling her that when you meet it will be a hook up. She will either flip out and say "who said we are hooking up" or she will start to qualify herself.

Im still in the preliminary stages of honing the online thing...but im getting there. right now my profile is a mess..i've got to change it.

 

[upcomingDJ]

yes i do it too... but make sure you don't get too ****y, as if you know everything because that can bite you in the ass later on...

because she's gonna expect you to know what to do/say and us guys will never understand women 100%... but yea keep doing that cuz it works for me too...

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

I've found that psychic stuff is a great opener, especially if you can demonstrate successfully how some of it works via cold reading PLUS ask her if she believes in it.

Its an interesting way to open up a convesration. I also avoided the job interview questions and made fun of them preemptivley by saying I hate it when people ask me about my job, school, family.

This girl knew what was going on though, I could tell she dates a lot.

I have this one awesome line where I say "so [her name her], tell me something about you that will make me say wow"

And usually most girls either go either the route of "i donno" or they say something like "i play guitar" or "i make my own jewlery" or some other hobby, the really sexual ones (depending on how much rapport you have) will say something that theyve done in bed"

After using this line a thousand times Ive always gotten one of the 3, but this one said "i dont need to impress anyone".

Its interesting how after only a few interactions totaling to maybe no more than 2 or so hours of conversation a girl would be willing to give her # and meet a complete stranger from the internet.

I see what you mean uncomingDJ, I probably will avoid the topic as much as possible from now on. I wouldn't want to exhaust it for the reasons you said PLUS I want to be able to use some of the REALLY good stuff on her without her knowing the tricks.