"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ever picked up in a pick up???

TonyBaloney

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Hey guys,

Have you ever done a drive by pick up?

I just bought a cool ex British military landrover, with two inch lift and fat tyres.

I bought it for work as i'm a logger in London, England. Carrys alot of weight.

I never realised how much girls look at big cars - it ridiculous.......Chicks are checking it out - even more so cos is got a v8, 3.75l ;) I had a normal truck before - they never looked at it!!!!

Any advice as I'm going into central London tonight with it to see what I can acheive!!!!!

Tony
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backseatjuan

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You Brits are familiar with Lada Niva, I know! I've done pickups from a Niva, in fact I met my current girl friend like that. There even was two chicks that told me and my wing to go fvck ourselves, we had to kick their ass though. That's in Russia. In the west you people suppose to have victim attitude, so I don't know how it could work out. Try it.
 

cablecow15

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backseatjuan said:
You Brits are familiar with Lada Niva, I know! I've done pickups from a Niva, in fact I met my current girl friend like that. There even was two chicks that told me and my wing to go fvck ourselves, we had to kick their ass though. That's in Russia. In the west you people suppose to have victim attitude, so I don't know how it could work out. Try it.

Im so confused by your post
 

PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
Here it doesn't work, as there are way too many extremely expensive cars rolling around. If you do have something that is unusual, it makes it easier to pick up at the gas stations, parking lots, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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