"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ethnic guys and hot blondes, fantasy sold by PUAs or what?

SmooveMooves

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I'm not saying white women aren't cool. But a lot of ethnic dudes are solely searching for a blonde suburban-type waspy trophy bítch. As sort of a... Well trophy or achievement.

As a result, they miss out on other girls and opportunities chasing their pedastal sitting dream.

That's not the way to go. And they're not the only chicks around whose DTF.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ThePlayedList

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PeasantPlayer said:
You'll see that in neighborhoods like Wrigleyville, Lakeview. Old Town. Its happening more and more. Asian women with white men is huge and so is white women with black men in Chicago, ike you said its pretty huge.

Why did you leave Chicago?
Job took me elsewhere and plus the weather and women were nothing to be happy of. How often do you see white women in chicago these days with ethnic men like asians, indians, and arabs? I remember seeing a lot with latinos but they were rarely the hot blond types.
 

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SmooveMooves said:
I'm not saying white women aren't cool. But a lot of ethnic dudes are solely searching for a blonde suburban-type waspy trophy bítch. As sort of a... Well trophy or achievement.

As a result, they miss out on other girls and opportunities chasing their pedastal sitting dream.

That's not the way to go. And they're not the only chicks around whose DTF.
what if they have managed to get those other girls you speak of but just cannot obtain that blonde?
 

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ThePlayedList said:
what if they have managed to get those other girls you speak of but just cannot obtain that blonde?
Then, you get over it. Accept what you can't change. Improve what you can.

You can only control you, you can't make someone like you.
 

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SmooveMooves said:
Then, you get over it. Accept what you can't change. Improve what you can.

You can only control you, you can't make someone like you.
There is no getting over it. There is only that empty feeling on the inside of not being able to get the kind of women you like and screwing the ones you don't really like that much. Even if you like that latina in bed you still have that miserable feeling eating away at you that you cannot get that hot blonde in bed with you. Guess this forum says keep living your miserable life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No.Danny

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Ban this idiot already
 

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Geez. This is 2015. Date an Indian woman and get her to dye Her hair blonde.
 
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