Enlightenment.. this will help you.

[captn caveman]

Been away loong time, and what I am writing happened long time ago, and enlightened me, answered many questions.

I saw my gf's best friend going to a shag with a guy who is totally out of her perceived league (lower), and when I joked with the friend, "cmon, you wont even take his number in the morning", she answered, "you crazy, of course I will never call him again"...

Talked to my gf about this, and the answer was,

"Of course she will shag this guy, not a better one. Saying goodbye to this guy in the morning will not hurt her. It is just physical relief for her. she wants a shag, not a crush, not a bf"

This I heard from many women before.. Never clicked in my head, like it did that day.

So if you were ever wondering why the girls look at you like hungry puppies look at food, they cant take their eyes off, but dont go further,

Man,

Accept.

You are too quality for a shag.

(This btw, is a common saying in the country I am)

You are wanted, you are desired... Just a tad too much.

You make them vulnerable. You are too powerfull in your existence.

So you go alone.

Accept to pay the price for quality, or lower yourself if you are after ons's.

but, then, if you are after a girlfriend, know that you have access to the creme, the creme de la creme.. (typo?)

It is a blessing with a curse.


P.S.: Had a fight over the fact on the woman thinks she is using the man (gf brought it up without me asking), but me saying, she is not using the man, she is lowering her price. And it is the man who is happier for the shag than the woman, so I wonder who is actually used. (macho side kicking in)

 

[Ace of Flames]

Curiouser and curiouser...

I bet the friend wasn't too hot herself. Heh. That, or she's really insecure.

 

[captn caveman]

I tell ya, she is hot, and she was herself. Consciously choosing out of the many she could have. One thing though, the guy is on good physical condition and testosterone, ensuring a good fack, given he can get it u with that amount of alcohol.

(We are not talking about a woman who dates bad guys, as she has no intention of dating)

It is a mentality I observed on countless women out there (without realizing what I was observing) who dont want to get attached, or dont want to have a crush, BUT, have a physical need; what we, men call being horny.

So to satisfy this need, they have this behavior.

Of course, quality guys seeing this, not realizing what's going on, turn into *******s. And there is nothing worse for a woman than a good looking, charming, quality man turning into an *******, knowing all the tricks of the trade, using it wisely without any ethics. Of course women then complain about men being *******s... Tz tz tz....

What you seed is what you plough... (??)

 

[captn caveman]

I tell ya, she is hot, and she was herself. Consciously choosing out of the many she could have. One thing though, the guy is on good physical condition and testosterone, ensuring a good fack, given he can get it u with that amount of alcohol.

(We are not talking about a woman who dates bad guys, as she has no intention of dating)

It is a mentality I observed on countless women out there (without realizing what I was observing) who dont want to get attached, or dont want to have a crush, BUT, have a physical need; what we, men call being horny.

So to satisfy this need, they have this behavior.

Of course, quality guys seeing this, not realizing what's going on, turn into *******s. And there is nothing worse for a woman than a good looking, charming, quality man turning into an *******, knowing all the tricks of the trade, using it wisely without any ethics. Of course women then complain about men being *******s... Tz tz tz....

What you seed is what you plough... (??)

 

[DanelMadr]

So if you were ever wondering why the girls look at you like hungry puppies look at food, they cant take their eyes off, but dont go further,

Man,

Accept.

You are too quality for a shag.

(This btw, is a common saying in the country I am)

You are wanted, you are desired... Just a tad too much.

You make them vulnerable. You are too powerfull in your existence.

So you go alone.

Accept to pay the price for quality, or lower yourself if you are after ons's.

but, then, if you are after a girlfriend, know that you have access to the creme, the creme de la creme.. (typo?)

It is a blessing with a curse.

I always say extreme guys(good looking) get extreme responses(contradictory)....and it confuses them.

Problem is when girl sees you like LTR material she waits with sex (not to appear slutty) and she is very insecure (confusing signals).

And you are absolutely right....they go for ugly or jerks for simple reasons....rough sex and no remorse/heartbreak in the event of break up....no strings attached.