"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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End of semester lay?

ZhaoYun

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So the end of my college semester is coming up. There's a woman in one of my classes (graduate student) who I tried to hang out with earlier in the semester, but pretty much got rejected so I left it alone. The past few weeks she's been texting and calling me a lot more, but most of the conversations have to do with school related stuff or general ish she could speak with anyone about.

So we basically say our goodbyes and she tells me to get up with her to hang out since she won't be leaving until next week. I gave her a "goodbye hug" and she was very hesitant to hug.

This chick rejected me and pretty much LJBF me and now she claims to want to hang out? She'll probably never see me again so why would she do this?

1) She just wants attention.
2) She wants to fvck
3) Just for her own amusement

My gut tells me to just leave her alone. I mean if anything were going to happen it would have happened already. I doubt she's just going to let me fvck now. Then again, I'm curious to see what happens if for some reason she does want to hang out. I'd just let my intentions be known straight up so I won't waste my time or hers.

What say you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hughman

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Sounds like an attention ***** and nothing more.
 
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