"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Encountering the same type of women frequently

Anteros

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I was minding my own business recently when a girl that I met a couple times pop up and greet me on fb. No friends in common, which was odd. I thought I would never heard of her again. So some days later I called her and she didn't answer. I let it be and went on my business again. The next day (morning) she send me a text telling me she was sleep due to a lot of work and post-grade stuff fatigue. I answer her at night since I didn't saw it till then (work doesn't allow phone activity) with a "No problem, get back to you later". I called her last night and she didn't pick up, try again an hour later and no luck. So I will next her, obviously, since she didn't respond and that's the most agreed upon thing to do here, to which I agree too.

The thing is, I've been noticing how I encounter this situation a lot recently. I meet someone, there's great rapport, they give me my number and/or add me on fb, then they just get hard to contact, I brush'em off and they get in touch again, and when I try to get back to them they flat out ignore me. The worst is some of them I had encounter on Tinder, or posting **** about being "single" or some crap. So what gives?! I'm tired of dealing with Attention Wh0res, so I hope this is just a phase and not that I'm picking them unconsious.

Any tips to deal with this? I sure could hear some brotherly advice!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women are at their flakiest at the earliest stages of meeting them.

Many of them of average looks and above have 5 guys or more sending them those type of messages, possibly many more when they are on the online dating sites where there is an infinite amount of c0ck giving attention to them.

Women's attention span is going on a downward spiral with social media. Flakiness goes up.

Tinder is the pit of the worst quality women, perhaps more so even than pof.

Don't believe a word she says or her excuses. She was asleep could just be a code for "I was getting fxcked by another guy".

If she's interested in you she'll make it easy.

Never worry too much about what a women does or whomever she picks to date - they are human beings and many of them end up dating the wrong guy. Of course they may never admit it to themselves and there's usually no going back to the good guy she missed out on and instead going for someone else instead due to a given number of coincidences/emotional feelings/retarded logic.

In this case, simple put go NC. If she initiates and tries to make it up to you then could give it one last go if you wish, otherwise delete her number and good riddance.
 

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LMFAO said:
Women are at their flakiest at the earliest stages of meeting them.

Many of them of average looks and above have 5 guys or more sending them those type of messages, possibly many more when they are on the online dating sites where there is an infinite amount of c0ck giving attention to them.

Women's attention span is going on a downward spiral with social media. Flakiness goes up.

Tinder is the pit of the worst quality women, perhaps more so even than pof.

Don't believe a word she says or her excuses. She was asleep could just be a code for "I was getting fxcked by another guy".

If she's interested in you she'll make it easy.

Never worry too much about what a women does or whomever she picks to date - they are human beings and many of them end up dating the wrong guy. Of course they may never admit it to themselves and there's usually no going back to the good guy she missed out on and instead going for someone else instead due to a given number of coincidences/emotional feelings/retarded logic.

In this case, simple put go NC. If she initiates and tries to make it up to you then could give it one last go if you wish, otherwise delete her number and good riddance.
Agreed. It sounds like she is a prostitute who will do anything for attention.
 

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The problem is that I've been in this situation many times lately, where after I met some pretty girl that we hit it off greatly they start talking being like that. Then I next them and they report so nicely and sh*t. I gotta say I don't call them more than two times, so if they ignore that, good riddance! But it's happening so much lately it's very annoying!
 
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