"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Emotions & Feelings

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Hi im new to all this so i would'nt mind a bit of help from all you experts. I would like to know what type of questions I should ask girls in order to set off their emotional feelings. I would like some advice on how to question them without coming across like a wuss. I understand everything which has been written on this site but i just don't understand how to ask the right questions!

Got my first gf at the age of 23. She maked me feel like a real man helped, to bring the shyness out off me. Went out with her for seven months and acted like a total wuss cos i was a nice guy and didn't get it! I've learned from my mistakes through reflecting, reading the info on this site, and talking with my succesful womanizing mates.

I know i can do everything else that must be done to attracted females apart from asking the right questions.

Please guys help me out. Sorry if something like this has been posted before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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first of all, since you actually had a relationship with a girl before...you're not as bad as you think

btw, aren't you bit old for high school forum?

going back to the original discussion of women and their emotions...i don't think its a good idea to set off their inner emotions.

girls have their own girl-friends to listen to their emotional stories and you don't wanna become her 'girl-friend' do you?

but make sure she relates you with 'good emotions', which means, when you're around her, have fun, make her laugh and feel good about herself...and stay away from her when she's sad or down, this will eventually lead her to associate YOU with GOOD FEELINGS.

then once you guys become a couple, she will start spilling her guts out lol and thats what most women do with their lovers anyway
 
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Juanito is right about not being a woman's emotional sponge. She has many girls that she can talk to so that she can pour out her sad stories and such to them.

But as far as "good" feelings...I'd say, aim for the "right" feelings.

If a girl always feels "good" around you, she will eventually make her own drama....just to test you and add spice to the relationship.

Women want to feel a variety of emotions (whether they admit it or not)...happy, sad, angry, frustrated, joy etc.....
 
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