"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Emotional bonds will get you women - real life example

TheGambino

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I met 4 people at the macdonalds today while I was eating my weekly cheatmeal.

Two girls and two guys were sitting next to me. I accidently dropped my phone and the girl laughed and told me that her boyfriend dropped his and broke it an hour ago. Mine survived it without a scratch btw.

Anyway we started to talk and the two guys were from Albania and the girls (HB7s but very clean, designer bags and shoes and looking awesome, they are from a wealthy family I think)
were from our region here in Holland.

I asked her where she met the guys and this is the story short.

The two guys hit on the girls at a restaurant but they rejected them. The girls weren't planning on talking to them nor going out with them. (The guys told me the story again and the girls weren't lying)

Then an earthquake occured at the bar in Greece (where the guys were for work). The guys grabbed the girls, calmed eachother at this near death experience.

So the earthquake kept going on but the group of four were together, cheering eachother up and holding eachother true the storm. After this the group spent the vacation together.

You guys see the key factor here? The girls ''fell in love'' with the guys due the emotional bond they established. The girls even invited the two guys over to their families thousands of kilometres away (they are all at the age of 18 - 22 probably) and they are their boyfriends.

With all of my encounters the ones that I made a huge emotional impact on obsess over me, are jealous, call me late at night to find out what im doing, are willing to drive 30minutes to pick me up when im drunk.

Recent example: I got a plate that had a eptonic surgery, she only f8cked with me so it can only be me. She is so obsessed over me after that happened, cex improved, she blows up my phone and is one jealous brat.

So don't forget to push/pull a lot, make emotional impact on your girl to make her obsess but don't forget don't be too harsh or unrespectfull that will do no one any good.

Feel free to add your thoughts, I just felt like sharing this knowledge even though a lot of you already know this. You got to make her feel to make her interested.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JonnyD123

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I read an article a while ago about that. Apparently if your first encounter with someone creates an adrenaline dump, it establishes an immeasurable bond. Makes sense, my ex and I went hiking through a freezing cold waterfall on our first date and we almost drowned. Craziest connection ever felt after that.
 
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