Emotional affairs? Flirting with women in relationships through text

[Travel memoir21]

I got a small a thousand something followings in Social media and facebook and it's always getting a decent amount of ratings whenever I post something. Which sorta gave me an itch to conduct an experiment, so what I did I do? I texted several women who are in relationships, some married and man, I won't lie, some of them ended up being very flirtatious. I know what I did may sound morally wrong, but I just had to know the ugly truth very easily. It is very common these days for women to have some sort of emotional affairs with several Men online behind their man's back. I'm not going to do anything with these women, but one of the reasons to be VERY cautious before entering marriage.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Do you ever actually go out with women or do you just post sht online all day for attention?

 

[Travel memoir21]

Do you ever actually go out with women or do you just post sht online all day for attention?

Ive gone on several dates with women here, they were Filipinas, some with South Korean ancestry, met them off Tinder…some from my parent’s hotel from Karaoke nights. Took a couple to the boba tea shop I frequent when Im writing, some the park where I walk my dog and a few to the movies…we’d go eat at the food court afterwards.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Some of the girls, I met on Tinder, they were in their mid 30s…..Lol, this hardly happens in America, Im learning something new each day baby lol.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Some of the girls, I met on Tinder, they were in their mid 30s…..Lol, this hardly happens in America, Im learning something new each day baby lol.

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@Gamisch

at least you’re not traveling 44 miles to bone trannies and flaunting it like this dude… maybe it was just a coffee date

 

[corrector]

You know you are posting on sosuave right? If you personalized chatgpt then it should entertain these types of questions to match your spirit. Fornicators on here will mock your thread since they dont count sexless dates, emotional cheating and all that. To them, you are either cheating or not.

As I am not a fornocator, I get what you are saying. You should not do anything that goes against your soul. If you believe it is wrong, then maybe its wrong to you. Dont try to validate any doubts by getting approval on here. They wont get you and you wont find the approval for your childsplay you are looking for.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I am a dude practicing my faith and very spiritual and a celibate until marriage. Yes, I’ve gone out with these girls lol….there’s definitely a friendship component to it. We went out to the beach several times, had bbq and sang karaoke. Im looking to make some new friends out here, Tinders a great tool to do that.

 

[corrector]

An emotional "affair' or even ignoring me, or looking too eager around her guy friends are all issues fractured the relationship I had with my ex-gf in 2012, at some point. If a woman is like that, then I doubt it will go as far as marriage as you'll feel she is too flakey and won't be able to trust her. Remember lonliness in a relationship is 1000 worst than lonliness as a single. Because the lonliness where you don't know where you stand, and she's giving her time, attention, energy to another guy(s) while you are languishing by yourself will lead to resentment, and over time, those are the things that lead to relationships/marriages ending badly.

 

[Travel memoir21]

@Gamisch

at least you’re not traveling 44 miles to bone trannies and flaunting it like this dude… maybe it was just a coffee date

My goal is not to sleep and have casual sex with these girls, it’s to date, socialize, build a social circle, work on my social skills and network for future businesses. I don’t need to get laid to be happy, I get happy by my hobbies, being out in nature, spiritual practices, my dogs and my male friends. Im not a wuss bag by any means, I don’t get oneitis because Im well aware of my purpose and calling in life and what will make me content, women are just icing on the cake. Also I ascribe to Rollo Tomassi’s philosophy of spinning more plates til you find the best option.

 

[Travel memoir21]

An emotional "affair' or even ignoring me, or looking too eager around her guy friends are all issues fractured the relationship I had with my ex-gf in 2012, at some point. If a woman is like that, then I doubt it will go as far as marriage as you'll feel she is too flakey and won't be able to trust her. Remember lonliness in a relationship is 1000 worst than lonliness as a single. Because the lonliness where you don't know where you stand, and she's giving her time, attention, energy to another guy(s) while you are languishing by yourself will lead to resentment, and over time, those are the things that lead to relationships/marriages ending badly.

Stay single, keep practicing your faith and take care of your parents man…you’ll reap good blessings for it